I'm a Scot whose family on both sides have been leaving Scotland for well over a hundred years, in search of a decent living. I am not unusual; ask grandparents anywhere in Scotland if they have family working abroad and there will be few who don't.
USA, Canada, South Africa, Australia and New Zealand have all benefited from our young people, trying to make their way.
My two grandchildren have been in South Australia for 3 years now. Both their parents are Scottish graduates with good degrees and skills, but have lost their jobs in the UK recession.
I have been lucky enough to visit them once in this time. Many grandparents can't afford to do this and miss out completely on family contact with the new generation.
Speaking only for myself, Scotland's wish is for parity - to be treated as an equal partner within the Union, with the same opportunities and investment in our country, so that our young people have a choice about where they live and work. I know that Wales and many parts of England and elsewhere in the United Kingdom have similar problems.
I don't know how Scotland will fare in the future, but I believe in the need to take the chance and the risk, because no-one else is going to fix this for us.