JessM you have made a relevant point and one that I have witnessed. To cut a long story short, a young girl I know, very clever, doing well at a not very academic school in a deprived area, good friend at same school in same position. First girl has very supportive parents, stays on for 6th form, off to Uni to read English and hopefully work in journalism. Girl 2 is forced by her family to leave school at 16 and take a job in Peacocks because it is good enough for your Mother and Sister, so it is good enough for you, who do you think you are? so, how do we get around the 'not for the likes of us' attitude? There was no difference in the income of the two families, family of first girl worked extra hours to help support her, family of girl 2 didnt see the point.