It just seems to get worse.
Is a new relationship possible without sex?
I can't believe how scared the poor souls are at the moment being held hostage by 'perceived' ISIS sympathiser/sympathisers. The only knowledge at the moment is a black flag with white Arabic writing on it is being displayed by a person/persons with a gun.
Up to 20 people are being held hostage in a Lindt chocolate cafe and heaven knows how frightened they must be knowing the depths such people will go to .
I hope events don't take a turn for the worse, it could easily go belly up.
What a world!
It just seems to get worse.
As if the siege wasn't enough sadness, now it seems eight children have been found dead in a house in Northern Queensland 
I have been having a wonderful time with them Alygran. Out at a local attraction today and walked further than I have for ages (and faster) so I am now very stiff and very tired. We ended the day with a visit to Santa who was absolutely wonderful. The GCs loved meeting him too. We told him (well Granny did actually) that the children were a little worried that he would know they were not in Australia but at home with Granny and he was great. He explained that he gets to Australian earlier but that he would certainly remember where the were this year when he flew over our area. He checked if we had a chimney or if he needed his magic key and was an excellent Santa.
My four year old grandson has had us in stitches as he loves to perform. Even his "thank you so much Santa" as we left had us chuckling.
We were on holiday in Australia and were flying home on Monday night when the siege was ongoing. We stayed at a Hotel very near to the cafe and saw lots of police and blocked roads. Fortunately we were able to get to the airport and the flight was not disrupted...but we are devastated for those affected by this. Gracesgran I hope your family are safe and well with you and to everyone else with family overseas big hugs.
p.s. love your candle idea, I'm not religious either but I'll happily do that and hope some good thoughts will help someone somewhere.
Yes papaoscar, I find myself despairing at the depths these people are sinking to and the justifications that other people come out with. It's a long time now since 1939, I wasn't alive then, but I think we are facing the same situation of a massive moral dilemma, do you let deluded killers run riot or do you say we've got to stand up to them?
Just why are so many atrocities done in the name of religion? I've always struggled to understand.
Very well said, anniezzz09, peace and education surely is the answer, but at the point of a very large and powerful stick, surely, otherwise humanity will be overwhelmed by even more horror and barbarism.
While on one level I agree with what you've said Gracesgran, on another I find myself arguing back and saying that actually we in the 'West' have brought a lot of good things to the world and continue to do so.
I know immediately now the response is a political, conspiracy thread - "they/we only wanted oil, minerals, land, religious converts". Yes, to some extent that's true but contact between peoples going back millennia has always been about expansion, looking for advantage and ending up with trade bringing mutual advantage. Sometimes it has been about annihilation and violence, that seems to be the way with so many humans.
I can't write off the benefits of education, healthcare and infrastructure which have improved the lives of many thousands around the world. It is a better deal than that brought by these fundamentalists who want to destroy Western civilisation and return us to the Middle Ages.
I cannot forgive or reason with people who think it is ok to indiscriminately kill children, maim adults, remove education from children, mutilate girls' genitals giving them a lifetime of pain, treat women as lesser beings, deny medical treatment, allow polio to return to Aghanistan and so on. And I personally cannot abide by this 'it's their culture' stance because if that's the case then it is saying that culture is static and that we should still have bull baiting, hanging, drawing and quartering, enforced marriage for women, slavery, children working in factories from an early age, living in an autocracy and so on.
The way forward has to be working peacefully together for change bringing education, healthcare and better living conditions to the whole world. I think in the face of climate change, we're probably all in for Armageddon at some point.
What a world indeed POGS, but just how much did we set it up to be like this, marching round the globe, seizing countries, diminishing their populations culture, inflicting our own religion on them. "As ye sow, so shall ye reap"
Pakistan is beyond belief also.
What a world. 
That's a lovely idea papaoscar. I'll do the same. It was said at the time of the new millenium 'all the gates to heaven and hell are open at this time' and it does seem as if a terrible evil has entered our world. A candle is a beacon of hope, no matter how small.
So once again a veil of sadness drapes itself over us all, but our thoughts are very much with the families and friends of those affected by this grim event. There is so much evil about. If only it were not so. I am not particularly religious but I shall light a small candle of hope for better times in 2015.
Glad it's over, but the thought of those three young children losing their Mummy is dreadful. Poor little mites.
Also sad that the cafe manager died so courageously. The Christmas season will never be the same again for their families.
God Bless them all 
Actions like this helps restore faith in humanity mcem
mcem how wonderful. Thank you for telling us about that. As the outcome was not what we must all have been hoping for it brings a little light back in.
A friend who is currently visiting from Australia has flagged up the I'LL RIDE WITH YOU campaign. Hundreds of Australian citizens are offering to accompany anyone who's afraid to use public transport. Many ordinary Muslim citizens are taking up these offers and are expressing their gratitude for such understanding and kindness.
What a wonderful way to show the lunatic fringe that decent people will not bow to such atrocities and to make it clear that fanatics form a tiny minority in a civilised society.
Durhamjen, ugh to all of the fundamentalist religious bigots is my response to your link. Shame we can't ship them off to some uninhabited planet where they can war and blow themselves up to their heart's content!
Questions are being asked why the gunman, who was an accessory in the murder of his ex wife was currently on bail. He has a violent record and has also sexually abused women who went to him because he was an advisor. His current partner was charged with murdering his ex wife last year and she is on bail too. Why these two were allowed bail. 
Also the manager of the cafe is said to have tried to disarm the gunman when he was falling asleep and the gun went off and he was killed. The 38 year old mother of three (one is only four) was apparently trying trying to protect her friend who is pregnant. Not sure how they and others were shot. It seemed the police went in firing when they heard gunshots. It would be awful to think of the hostages getting shot or killed in crossfire. I hope not, we won't know everything I guess until later.
I really could cry for those families who have lost loved ones especially the three children, just before Christmas.
Oz has supplied troops to Iraq, possibly for training rather than combat, but I am not sure. Canada has done the same. Both have recently suffered terrorist attacks. Pundits and politicians on the television have been adamant that there is no cause and effect.
This is so sad. I really didn't expect something like this to happen in Australia.
DD2 lives in Brisbane and occasionally goes to Sydney on business. I'm relieved she was nowhere near this.
What do you think about this article from the Guardian annie?
www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/belief/2014/dec/12/evangelical-giftwrapping-islamophobia-marches-on
I agree with Giles Fraser, it's not just onesided, fanaticism.
I don't mean to just score points but even if they were killed in crossfire, they wouldn't have been if it hadn't been for the gunman holding them hostage in the first place. I've got no patience with these fanatics and having read about the sexual assault charges I find myself thinking 'how typical, another screwed up religious bigot preaching one thing and doing another'. Religion, the bane of the human race!
At the moment it is not known how these two people died. It could have been in crossfire.
I'm talking the lunatic fringes of Islamic extremism such as I.S. and like minded sects and individuals. Those who murder others in the name of Islam. Not just this pond scum.
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