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Dying of cold

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durhamjen Sun 25-Jan-15 16:12:14

I thought it had opened again, though, vampire. For three months at least, and hopefully for longer. It was in the Hull Daily Mail about it.

vampirequeen Sun 25-Jan-15 09:02:56

I'm sure we weren't the only school that did it.

vampirequeen Sun 25-Jan-15 09:02:35

It was really sad when HARP closed. When I was a teacher our harvest festival produce, left over Christmas party stuff (there was loads) and leftover free fruit was taken to them by our caretaker.

grannyactivist Sat 24-Jan-15 19:06:23

I heard a really heartwarming story from one of the people who phoned me yesterday. Her husband (he works in housing) attended a conference on homelessness and was chatting afterwards with a barrister who had also attended. He assumed the man had little personal experience of homelessness and suggested it probably wasn't a problem in the wealthy area he lived in. The barrister disagreed and pointed out that he had allowed a homeless man to live in his porch for the past two years! smile

durhamjen Sat 24-Jan-15 16:01:07

By the way, Harp stands for Homeless and Rootless Project.

durhamjen Sat 24-Jan-15 15:59:43

When we lived in Hull, this was one of the projects my husband worked on.
He was the architect, nearly 20 years ago. It had to close down this summer because there was not enough money to run it.
However, lots of people have rallied round now. Many pensioners have been donating their fuel allowances to it, and the local schools have been cooking for it. They had over fifty sleeping bags donated, so people do not have to sleep in the cold. I noticed this before Christmas, as I quite often read the local paper, as that was where I was born.
It is heartwarming to know that even in a city where many people are quite poor, they still look out for others who are worse off.

www.hulldailymail.co.uk/heartwarming-Christmas-message-people-Hull-Linda/story-25757208-detail/story.html

Mishap Sat 24-Jan-15 15:57:13

We had a chap like that who lived in a ditch just round the corner from us. He chose this lifestyle and refused the offer of a caravan. He had a transistor radio and you could hear the cricket commentary as you went by. He died getting run over when crossing the lane after surviving countless winters in the cold and damp. Very sad.

Marmight Sat 24-Jan-15 15:52:07

We have our local homeless (by choice) person, Brian. Every winter I fear will be his last but he seems to survive. He was offered accommodation in the next village which he accepted - for a week - and then moved out. He just doesn't do indoors. He has a tent in the summer in the woods and in the winter dosses down in the shelter in the village cemetery. Everyone looks out for him and gives him warm clothes/duvets/boots and hot food. He used to have a good job in Dunn's the gentleman's outfitters in London, but one day just walked out and never went back and fetched up here, in Fife, about 12 years ago. I think he's comfortable with his lifestyle and the local support he receives.
I wish you luck GA in sourcing your emergency accommodation.

grannyactivist Sat 24-Jan-15 15:18:07

I don't know the dead man's background, but I do know that one of the other local rough sleepers lost his house, wife and children in a fire. He started drinking and lost his job and now lives on the streets and is an alcoholic. sad We have only two or three men actually sleeping on the streets (in beach shelters usually or a park), but there is one living in a tent in nearby woods (very well supported by the local community) and two others who share a semi-derelict caravan on a piece of land lent by the owner. We have a community Christmas lunch, a food bank and a cafe that will give meals in exchange for vouchers issued by local churches. The charity shops will often help out with winter clothes etc. so it really is just emergency accommodation that's needed.

durhamjen Sat 24-Jan-15 15:15:16

In many cities they have groups going round and checking on rough sleepers, taking them somewhere for the night to have something to warm them up. It's often easier to sleep when it's warmer during the day, and stay awake at night.

Mishap Sat 24-Jan-15 15:08:00

I too wish you good luck with this - and it would be good to hear how it goes so others can learn from it.

I often feel desperate for those sleeping rough when I am snuggling down in my warm bed - to be out in this weather is unthinkable and unimagineable.

durhamjen Sat 24-Jan-15 15:06:46

That's terrible, grannyactivist. I hope you manage to get something organised before it happens to anyone else.
Do you have any idea why they were sleeping rough?

tanith Sat 24-Jan-15 15:01:35

Thats a really good thing you are trying to set up grannyactivist, I don't have any experience or advice to give but wish you good luck with your endevour I'm sure it won't be easy.

grannyactivist Sat 24-Jan-15 14:57:09

Last week two street sleepers were found dead, one locally and another in the nearby city. The nights were bitterly cold and too much for their abused bodies to withstand. One of the men sat outside my house a few days ago with another rough sleeper and now I feel so sad that I didn't invite them in - I thought about it, but my husband was away and there were two of them so I decided it would be foolhardy. In hindsight I realise I should have asked a friend to join us and then at least I could have given them a hot meal. I'm not blaming myself or beating myself up, but I am regretful and I will make sure that in future I find a way of doing something helpful for these people.
So many people rang me to try and figure out a way of preventing this from happening again that I'm arranging a meeting with concerned parties to discuss an emergency night shelter for when the temperature drops to freezing. So, if any of you grans have any experience or advice that would help I'm all ears. smile