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"Hard working families"

(67 Posts)
Anniebach Wed 01-Apr-15 09:38:31

Repeating hard working families makes some feel smug, chips away at the self esteem of the disabled, unemployed , those struggling on minimum wage, this government has no interest in making people feel better about themselves , just words to create an even bigger devide and gain votes.

tiggypiro Wed 01-Apr-15 08:28:09

And as for all those lessons they have learned .................... ! We must now be heading for Utopia !

gillybob Wed 01-Apr-15 07:58:28

Annoying as it sounds I think the term is meant to make those poor young people trying to juggle children, childcare and work feel better about themselves , and tries to put the message across that their valuable contribution to society is appreciated.

absent Wed 01-Apr-15 07:57:03

That's why crun and I put benefit scroungers in inverted commas. It's very hard on genuine claimants to hear this pejorative description.

vampirequeen Wed 01-Apr-15 07:41:40

Benefit scroungers will never feel uncomfortable but it makes genuine claimants like me feel very uncomfortable.

absent Wed 01-Apr-15 03:39:49

I don't think the phrase is meant to make "benefit scroungers" feel uncomfortable so much as to make people who have got jobs, especially those whose pay is low, feel resentful towards the "benefit scroungers".

crun Wed 01-Apr-15 01:12:39

I've always assumed it's a bit of psychology, designed to make "benefit scroungers" feel uncomfortable.

FlicketyB Tue 31-Mar-15 19:40:38

They never give a definition of what a hard-working family is. How do they decide who is hardworking and who is not. What effect the difference will have on their entitlement to benefits and help, plus of course absents comments.

absent Tue 31-Mar-15 19:07:18

Are there no hard-working single people, widows, widowers, childless couples, etc.?

whenim64 Tue 31-Mar-15 18:42:53

Include me in! Makes my blood boil when they come out with this claptrap. My young next door neighbour is the breadwinner whilst his partner is looking after their new baby and toddler. She doesn't get maternity leave because she had a zero hours contract. If she went back, she couldn't plan nursery hours needed because of the unreliability of her job. He has three zero hours contract jobs and gets called out at very short notice, so family time can't be planned. A living wage and one job each is their ambition.

rosesarered Tue 31-Mar-15 18:39:24

Haha, yes, where are all these hard working families? I am pretty lazy myself.

TerriBull Tue 31-Mar-15 18:37:43

Yes I agree, I think it's become THE defining cliche of this election, how they love trotting it out, DC likes to roll his shirt sleeves up so we know he's from a hard working family grin I have yet to see Ed roll his sleeves up, but perhaps he does when he's cleaning his kitchens!

Mishap Tue 31-Mar-15 18:31:32

Me too - they are only working their tripe out and seeing so little of their children because they cannot afford a home unless they do! Rather than subsidise child care, perhaps it would be better to ensure families can make a living wage without having to be out of the home all the time.

Juliette Tue 31-Mar-15 18:29:35

Only if I can have a postal vote!

MamaCaz Tue 31-Mar-15 18:23:25

Yes please grin

Wheniwasyourage Tue 31-Mar-15 18:21:34

I'm right there, boiling with you, MamaCaz. I'm setting off for a tropical island somewhere and just coming back in time to vote. Anyone want to come?

MamaCaz Tue 31-Mar-15 17:35:34

Grrr - my blood boils every time I hear a politician use that expression. Is it just me? If I feel like this now, how will I feel by the time of the election?