We are in the midst of a family dispute over a will. My elder sister died unexpectedly in June and although she had made a will - quite an intricate one in fact, she was in process of changing one element of it. She was taking out my other sister, my younger brother and me and leaving our share to three nieces, one of whom is my daughter. She died the day before the new will was to be signed.
The executors asked the three disinherited if we would be willing to abide by her wishes expressed in the new unsigned will and forego our inheritance. I said that I would do that but the other two have declined and want to take their portion so I have decided that I will take mine and divide it between the three nieces as my deceased sister wished. It has caused a lot of bad feeling and although I have been praised by the recipient nieces for my intention to try and fulfil what she wanted, I do feel slightly hurt and slightly rejected that I was to be disinherited. Why would she do that after all these years, with no word of explanation?
The lawyers have said that the existing will could be challenged on the basis that a new will had been drawn up, even though not signed, but the costs would be considerable and may not be worth it.
It feels like something out of Bleak House.