I too can understand wearing a white poppy for peace on 21st September. But on remembrance day, for me, the only appropriate poppy is a red one. I wear this with pride, remembering my grandfather who fought from 1915-18, dying at the early age of 56, due to the gas attacks and shell shock he suffered during his time in the Infantry. Also for my second cousin who died of wounds in North Africa, but most of all for my father who was killed 5 weeks before I was born. Like others I was sent a wooden cross with a poppy attached which I put on my father's grave, where he lies buried with his companions in the Netherlands, when I visited it last October .