"Those who fell, those who fought, those who survived, the families of all ex servicemen and women, those who served in the ambulance or fire watching services" Where do you draw the line?
I think what we should be remembering is the readiness which those people showed in the face of danger, to make their country's service their priority.
Service is no longer a popular concept but when I see those frail old codgers (no disrespect!!) and think of their incredible bravery and resilience, I feel truly humbled.
It is a Service of Remembrance, some of us will remember family members who are no longer with us. Others, those who have to live with the legacy of fighting or imprisonment. Dies it matter? For this period, if for no other "We will remember them".