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Salford to ban foul language in public areas

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HannahLoisLuke Thu 03-Mar-16 10:21:37

I heard on the radio this morning that Salford is to ban the use of foul language in public places. About time! Other town councils please follow suit. Apart from the difficulty of enforcing such a rule I'm all for it. I'm sick of hearing this yobbish stuff shouted on our streets at all hours of the day and night in the presence of shoppers, children and the elderly.

I don't think I'm particularly prudish, I did find the TV comedy The Thick of It very funny and that was effing and blinding from start to finish, but on the streets, no.

What do others think?

grands Fri 04-Mar-16 12:34:19

I thought that schools were teaching RESPECT. I would have thought consideration for others was part of that. Maybe people know what is Respectful, yet some breach Respect in public places. Maybe we need awareness programmes, and encouragement for civility and Respect.

jinglbellsfrocks Fri 04-Mar-16 12:13:39

shock !!! nigglynellie! 'toss' is really bad! shock

wink grin

nigglynellie Fri 04-Mar-16 12:05:12

or, 'a tinkers cuss'!!

nigglynellie Fri 04-Mar-16 11:57:13

How about, 'I don't give a toss'?! wink

TriciaF Fri 04-Mar-16 11:27:16

I'm another one who doesn't like to hear people swearing, but I wonder how Salford will enforce the ban? Will there be a fine, as for spitting phlegm in public places?
Our oldest son used to swear a lot and I struggled to stop him - I still don't know how he got the habit, though my ex, his Dad, used to swear. But when he got married and had children his wife put her foot down - good for her.

jinglbellsfrocks Fri 04-Mar-16 11:19:50

grin

Juggernaut Fri 04-Mar-16 11:03:51

Jinglbellsfrocks, This isn't directed at you, but I love "You seem to have mistaken me for someone who gives a fuck"!
I was taught years ago by a colleague to swear like a trooper in French, German, Italian and even Russian, it's very impressive! I don't use that particular talent often though!

nigglynellie Fri 04-Mar-16 11:03:22

How about, I don't care?! I'm not interested? Frankly my dear I don't give a damn?!! I'm not saying that I never swear, but effing and blinding particularly in front of young children, is not for me! Listening to young mothers in supermarkets cursing at their little ones is awful. Can they really not talk to them in a civilised way? Too much on TV, we just turn it off. I think it's horrid and that's all there is to it.

Teacher11 Fri 04-Mar-16 10:51:04

Jinglebellsfocks, I can't resist a challenge. You ask "nigglynellie give me one phrase that is quite as satisfying as 'I don't give a flying fuck'"

I'd offer the classic Malcolm Tucker: " Come the fuck in or fuck the fuck off."

Blissful!

Teacher11 Fri 04-Mar-16 10:48:47

I don't like swearing in the street but you can't ban everything you don't like as it is authoritarian. Look at what has been censored and/or banned already: tobacco, alcohol, fat, sugar, the wrong sort of lightbulb, efficient Hoovers, sunbathing, carrier bags, coffee and so on. Some of these things are possibly justified but others, like fat, sunbathing and alcohol have definite health benefits and it should be up to the individual to decide whether to partake of them and the degree to which they should indulge.

Additionally, banning things encourages the puritans among us, the health police and the 'nannies' to go further and further and to punish the temperate for the excesses of the intemperate.

I would ban banning. Hooray for truth and liberty!

Bubbe Fri 04-Mar-16 10:37:42

I agree that a group of teenagers using swear words in conversation between themselves is just 'padding' and is not meant to be intimidating to others who overhear them, but it is nonetheless offensive and inappropriate in public places. I believe teenagers will often use swear words because they think it makes them seem 'big'.

In primary school we teach young children (who hear their parents swearing, and therefore don't know that it is unacceptable) that we use some words in some places.

As for banning foul language in public I feel 'the discussion' is good and if it becomes highlighted as unacceptable (as is with adults hitting children), then we in society can hope to reduce it.

I get most stressed when I hear adults swearing at small children.

jinglbellsfrocks Fri 04-Mar-16 10:31:03

nigglynellie give me one phrase that is quite as satisfying as 'I don't give a flying fuck'. grin

sevenwonders Fri 04-Mar-16 10:24:30

Absolutely agree. Just don't set me off about foul language. I come from a mining area and never once did I hear miners use foul language when women or kids were there. They kept it down the pit.

Granddaughter Fri 04-Mar-16 10:15:12

Foul language is offensive to very many people particularly in a public area where there are children. If we can identify ways of reducing profanity in public aeas then it has my full support. I know I have used such language in such areas then afterwards felt rather ashamed. If public notices or other ways of reminding us to consider others who find it profanity offensive then I welcome such.

Lets try to bring more decency back in to our society and not let children believe such language is the norm and quite acceptable.

Cosafina Fri 04-Mar-16 10:05:25

My language can be pretty fruity at times, but I do object when some lout is effing and blinding in front of DGS.

How would you police it, though? Apparently it's illegal to spit in the street, but I constantly have to slalom my wheelie suitcase in order to avoid traipsing someone's phlegm into my house. It's also illegal to leave your dog's poo in the street, but I have to call the council daily to come and pick up what's left outside.
hmm

MTDancer Fri 04-Mar-16 10:04:15

According to the public order act of 1986, section five it is already an offence:_ Harassment, alarm or distress.

(1)A person is guilty of an offence if he—

(a)uses threatening, abusive or insulting words or behaviour, or disorderly behaviour, or

(b)displays any writing, sign or other visible representation which is threatening, abusive or insulting,

within the hearing or sight of a person likely to be caused harassment, alarm or distress thereby.

Personally I hate it. My dad could swear like a trooper (I'm told) but I NEVER heard him swear as he deemed it inappropriate in front of women and children.

About 10 years ago we went to a massive Country Music event, which was outdoors, In Florida. The crowd were mainly 25 -35 and they drank a lot of beer in that time as it was an all day and night event. I can honestly say That I heard no swearing whatsoever from anyone.

I DO get offended by hearing it and I have asked people not to swear in public with varying degrees of success.

I have got to the stage where I stop watching certain TV series because there is too much offing and jeffing on them

antheacarol Fri 04-Mar-16 10:01:55

I hate hearing people swearing ,and the amount of people telling their childern to shut their F****ing mouths is heartbreaking.

When I worked in Tesco you could hear the childern using the f and c word to their parents and I am talking about 5 yr olds

I would never have dared to say bloody in front of my mum even when I was grown up.

nigglynellie Fri 04-Mar-16 09:59:15

I can't for the life of me see how Saltford will be able to ban foul language. Will the police be called? will there be a fine on the spot? or what?!
Personally, at the risk of being metaphorically pelted with rotten tomatoes, I hate foul language, and find it offensive. I rarely go where I'm likely to hear it, and feel sorry for people who have no choice. Surely people can express their feelings without having to resort to f.ing and blinding? It sounds so ugly, particularly from well dressed, attractive, often young people. This of course, is only my opinion.

jinglbellsfrocks Fri 04-Mar-16 09:26:40

And btw, I don't give a flying fuck if my previous post causes me to be called 'GN police'.

And do you know why 'fuck' is harmless why the 'c' word isn't? It's because both sexes are involved in F------. Not just one sex.

obieone Fri 04-Mar-16 09:03:57

We all know[barring regional variations] which words are foul and when they are used foully etc etc. I am not going to get pedantic on things.

jinglbellsfrocks Fri 04-Mar-16 08:57:04

Do NOT put the 'c' word up on here. It is truly foul. It is a word with strong connotations of violence towards women, apart from anything else.

thatbags Fri 04-Mar-16 08:53:02

Similarly, words like fuck and cunt have ordinary, non-foul meanings (copulate and female genital labia, for instance). It's how they are used that makes them seem foul. In short it is the usage that is foul not the words themselves.

thatbags Fri 04-Mar-16 08:50:30

Would you call the words "Jesus" or "Christ" foul? Probably not and yet they can be used foully. They are not offensive in themselves.

obieone Fri 04-Mar-16 08:45:11

The words are still foul.

thatbags Fri 04-Mar-16 08:39:58

It's perfectly possible to be outrageously rude (foul) without using any so-called foul words. How words are used is what counts, not which words.