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Should prostitution be legalised?

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thatbags Tue 08-Mar-16 07:09:09

Susie Boniface (yes) versus Julie Burchill (no).

Galen Tue 15-Mar-16 15:12:54

Not William ap David?

Anniebach Tue 15-Mar-16 14:44:04

And the child William would have been William David not William Rees

pompa Tue 15-Mar-16 14:42:34

Only got back as far as online resources will take us, about mid 1800's, guess we will need to search local parish records to get back further. We did find the house in Haverford West where they lived.

Anniebach Tue 15-Mar-16 14:41:56

You are mistaken Elegran , all those records are church records and the church in Wales was at one time part of the Church of England

Elegran Tue 15-Mar-16 14:38:24

Surely the birth/marriage/death records in Welsh churches were a matter for the incumbent of the individual church to keep up to date and preserve? Nothing to do with any problems the English may have had with the patronymics? If a child William were born to David ap Rees, and baptised, then it would be entered in the register as such.

Try familysearch.org/learn/wiki/en/Wales_Church_Records

Anniebach Tue 15-Mar-16 14:34:08

There will always be prostitution and I think better to accept this fact and change the law to make it a safer occupation for woman and for men, more male prostitutes are murdered than female prostitutes

Anniebach Tue 15-Mar-16 14:30:34

You are so lucky Rosesarered, very difficult for the Welsh to find records going back to the 16th century , the English had a problem with our patronymic system

pompa Tue 15-Mar-16 14:23:37

I'm sure there are many more male prostitutes than we might imagine. I suspect there are many gay men who would rather use a prostitute than admit they are gay.

baubles Tue 15-Mar-16 14:17:41

You would only go there if you intended to, it does not overflow into residential areas.

I think this was posted by Pompa but it is not the case I'm afraid. A few years ago DH & I stayed in Amsterdam in a hotel a fair distance from the city centre. We walked back through residential streets and were surprised to come across several individual lighted windows where prostitutes were in residence. I wondered how they turned a coin as there didn't seem to be much in the way of passing trade.

Anniebach Tue 15-Mar-16 14:15:46

Who mentioned footballers wives,in missed that post , and do all footballers give their wives black eyes ?

And please Elegran, do not tell me to make up my mind on any topic , you are not a moderator so please stop being bossy. And it's New Zealanders and sheep

rosesarered Tue 15-Mar-16 14:13:54

As an English person,with English ancestry going back to the 16th century,
Born in England, always lived in England will be buried in England, I can tell the difference too! Any Scots or Irish here care to add a comment?However,
I don't always assume it's a put down.

Anniebach Tue 15-Mar-16 14:06:44

As a Welsh person with Welsh ancestry from 17th century - can't get further back, yet - born in Wales, always lived in Wales , will be buried in Wales , I can tell the difference between a joke and a put down

Galen Tue 15-Mar-16 14:05:46

Herumph! What about male prostitutes?

rosesarered Tue 15-Mar-16 14:04:13

Where does all this dour PC ness come from? Lighten up as pompa says.
Somebody referred to the Cynthia Payne case earlier.... I always thought it was ridiculous to close down her ' afternoons' all with matronly prostitutes and the clientele of accountants and vicars.

Elegran Tue 15-Mar-16 14:03:24

Just stop beating Pompa and Grummpa about the head for being men, would you, Jess? They are a part of "us" as much as any of the women on here. They may approach prostitution from a different angle, but they are sensible (and sensitive) about it, and a view from the other side of the bed is a useful persepective.

And please Anniebach make up your mind whether you intend to engage in a bit of light banter about the sheep or to get the claws out about racial stereotypes and the subjugation of the Welsh - for crying out loud, exactly the same "stereotyping" takes place about sheep farmers in the Scottish uplands, Australia, and probably every other place where men in wellies look after woolly jumpers, not to mention stockmen dealing with other beasts.

As for believing that prostitution is exactly the same as being a footballer's wife - you must be pulling our legs. A prostitute sleeps with anyone and everyone who can afford it - come one, come all. A footballer's wife risks a black eye if she fancies another man and acts on her desire.

A wife who doesn't have a paid job, but instead looks after the children oif her marriage, her home, and her extended family, and works part-time or intermittently when opportunity arises, is NOT exchanging sex for money, she is contributing to what is essential at the time to the partnership she is in.

Anniebach Tue 15-Mar-16 14:02:39

I know POGS, and having belonged to forums for quite a few years one gets fed up with constant jibes . I have no problem with light hearted banter .

pompa Tue 15-Mar-16 13:16:54

FHS lighten up.

JessM Tue 15-Mar-16 13:12:22

Sexism as well pompa? Temper temper.

pompa Tue 15-Mar-16 12:54:45

There will always be outcry from some, as a Yorkshire man , with Welsh ancestry, living in Essex, I am the possible target of many jokes, and that's what they are, to be taken light heartedly, and I try to give as good as I get.

Good spirited banter seems to be the territory of men, women, generally don't get it or take it too seriously.

POGS Tue 15-Mar-16 12:45:57

Anniebach

It's all about context.

Anniebach Tue 15-Mar-16 12:05:14

I share the opinion with Jess that jokes about racial stereotypes are unacceptable , this have been proved here by the outcry when I spoke of little englanders , many found it unacceptable

pensionpat Tue 15-Mar-16 11:45:21

Even if prostitution were legalised I suspect that there will always be women so desperate that they would be willing to "undercut" the professionals. So it continues.......

Anya Tue 15-Mar-16 11:33:37

Jess take a damper would you.

POGS you'll get no flack from me. Jess ought to limit her posts to her own opinions and not assume she speaks for us all.

Anniebach Tue 15-Mar-16 11:25:55

Prostition is unacceptable because a woman charges for sex , is there such a difference between women who marry for money or a title, a woman who sleeps with a footballer so she can be seen in the media

What makes me cross is Max Clifford was jailed because he had sex with girls who were willing if he could make them celebs

POGS Tue 15-Mar-16 11:15:34

For goodness sake I may be wrong but what Grumppa and pompa have said is nothing more than has been posted on threads before. If I could be assed I would find one or two but that would only waste my time. I think there may have been banter between Anniebach and Grumppa before of a similar vein. Anniebach posted ' and my reply re an old joke was light hearted to'. Apologies to Anniebach if I am mistaken .

I didn't like the 'if you are going to hang around with US' comment, who the hell are US? and I don't like the accusary tone of your last post JessM. It cannot help but be noted that you are focussing on the gender of the two posters you are taking exception to and I for one am a tad uneasy about it. I've noted this happen on GN before.

I know I will probably get some flack now but I will take it on the chin and not get into a personal spat but I could not just sit back and say nothing I've said my piece.