dj why are you being so sensitive? It's not like you. No-one is being rude about you or your friends and family as far as I can see. I was saying that if someone who was really keen on one party or policy were to raise the subject with me, I would not argue - I would be non-committal and then vote as I wanted, not as they would like to persuade me into. Voting is not a matter of how someone's opinion or position can change someone else's. It is a matter of "what I want" as a result of "what I have found out and considered^.
That is why I don't get into political arguments on here about who is right and who is wrong. Not because of apathy, or because I don't care whether this or that doctrine will take the country to wrack and ruin, but because I don't wish to waste my breath in blowing hot air around. There is too much of that already.