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Melania and equality

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thatbags Thu 26-Jan-17 09:32:45

Spot on, gillybob. People are in lynch mob mode with regard to Trump.

thatbags Thu 26-Jan-17 09:31:28

That was another story I was going to highlight, yggdrasil. There is another, and a just as plausible interpretation of that quick change of expression on Melania's face. Trump turned and spoke to her during a service. She smiled in response and then realised that another prayer had begun and resumed what observers are calling her "prayer face" immediately, as one would. She also bowed her head slightly. Again, as one would at prayer time.

Much as I am as dubious about Trump's good qualities as everyone else, the prayer face interpretation strikes me as much more believable than Melania hating her husband. Plus, the negative interpretations, as the example above shows, are often taken out of context. Context matters.

gillybob Thu 26-Jan-17 09:25:20

....and lets not forget Melania is an intelligent woman who apparently speaks more than 7 languages. I can't imagine her taking any crap. not that I know her of course

gillybob Thu 26-Jan-17 09:23:45

Whatever you think of DT he really can't win can he?

He walks in front he is a bully and selfish.
He waits for her and lets her go first, he is sexist and treating her like a "little wifey"

Maybe, just maybe, he was so excited to get up those stairs he just couldn't wait. hmm

MawBroon Thu 26-Jan-17 09:21:58

It doesn't stop in depth relationship analysis or explicit advice on MN or indeed GN based on no more than an OP though does it?

Teetime Thu 26-Jan-17 09:21:46

I do just wonder though if you are married to the leader of the free world (sic) wont you always take second place or even further back. I cant really believe she has such a dreadful life anyway he is going to be away a lot which is a bonus.

sunseeker Thu 26-Jan-17 08:53:10

I am amazed how some people know what others are thinking and what is happening inside the marriage of someone they have never met. Is this a gift or do you go on a course to learn it? - me, I don't even know when my neighbours are having a disagreement

MawBroon Thu 26-Jan-17 08:43:56

Perhaps that is why she has chosen to stay on in New York, not their son's schooling. hmm

yggdrasil Thu 26-Jan-17 08:26:41

He is a bully. I have seen behaviour like that elsewhere. See this clip

www.mirror.co.uk/news/world-news/sympathy-melania-trump-gathers-momentum-9693818

She dare not smile when he turns to her.

thatbags Thu 26-Jan-17 08:07:12

Certain pictures and 'stories' about Donald and Melania Trump are appearing repeatedly on Twitter. It's interesting to compare interpretations.

This one, where Donald gets out of the limo and goes up the steps to meet the Obamas while Melania gets out of the far side of the vehicle and walks up by herself has provoked a lot of discussion reaction.

The most common interpretation is that Donald is a boor/ungentlemanly for not waiting for Melania and walking up the steps with her. I suspect this is based on the premise that he's a boor anyway and, besides, people hate him.

Another interpretation is that he is more of a gender egalitarian than we think because he was behaving just as he would have done if Melania were a man.

The latter interpretation made me wonder if Theresa May 'waits for' Philip May in similar circumstances or whether he just 'follows' in due course?