Lazigirl, my mum, who had been anurse all her working life, used to tell us that she looked after her mum until she died.
When her mum died, my mum was 27. My brother was two years old, just, and I was three months, so that was her job at the time. In fact the house they lived in was the one where my grandmother had given my mum and dad all her money to pay the deposit after my brother was born, so my grandmother owned more of the house than they did.
When my parents died, they were 87 and 83, and none of us could look after them. Our houses weren't suitable.
They looked after each other in a ground floor flat until my mother had to go into a nursing home after she fell.
It's very trite to say that we should be looking after our elderly. Not so easy these days.
Orchids and other lovely plants that don’t need a lot of attention


