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The President's Club Annual Gala - "Men Behaving Badly"

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TerriBull Thu 25-Jan-18 09:55:46

I expect this is going to divide opinion, but what's your take on the Men Only charity event that's all over the news. However, for those not familiar, a bevy of young women, many of them students, were recruited through an agency for this event, they had to be slim and good looking they were told to wear sexy shoes and black underwear to go under the very skimpy dresses provided.They also had to sign a five page disclaimer, which they didn't get to read and weren't given a copy of. A couple of female undercover FT journalists were also amoung these young women and testified to appalling behaviour by SOME of the male guests. To give a flavour of the offers guests were asked to bid for "Plastic surgery to spice up the Mrs" hmm Jess Phillips gave a very good speech in Parliament imo saying these young women who were expected to act as hostesses "were merely bait" Personally I find it sickening that the guise of charity is used as a way to negate the bad behaviour in this sort of evening. I believe some of the high profile charities such as GOSH have told the now defunct Presidents' Club, where to stick their money.

Anniebach Thu 01-Feb-18 09:20:36

Gilly, there are three women a week murdered in domestic abuse but a girl wearing skimpy clothes and perhaps a man touching their bottom causes more anger . I want equality for women but this means accepting some women choose to make a living wearing skimpy clothes and serving drinks .

Equality means equality among women as well as between women and men.

gillybob Thu 01-Feb-18 09:20:35

I’m wondering if certain extreme feminists won’t be happy until our granddaughters are all wearing the Burka .

gillybob Thu 01-Feb-18 09:12:07

My local radio is currently playing “Hot Stuff”
By Donna Summer . How very appropriate. Taken from the film The Full Monty which was very degrading towards men and should be banned .

gillybob Thu 01-Feb-18 09:08:02

On the head not in !

gillybob Thu 01-Feb-18 09:07:49

I think your last paragraph might hit the nail in the head Anniebach

Could it be based on jealousy that some women seem use against each other . Someone saying “ I wouldn’t lower myself “ when infact you are plain and dumpy so they wouldn’t want you anyway wink

Anniebach Thu 01-Feb-18 09:02:57

How is there equality in one group of women causing another group of women to,lose their jobs. So easy for women for who have had a good education to tell girls to get an education, or do a decent job like cleaning or stacking shelves.

I think this is more to do with some feminists disapproving of their sisters using their looks and figure instead of their brain.

Iam64 Thu 01-Feb-18 08:55:09

Sorry gillybob my post was being written whilst you were writing about your husband's experiences. That's the point isn't it - that kind of behaviour is unpleasant to say the least and could damage the more vulnerable amongst us.

Iam64 Thu 01-Feb-18 08:53:43

If you really can't see why "they have felt the need to stop the brolly dollies in formula 1" gillybob - there seems no point in anyone trying to elaborate on issues around the objectification of women, the need for greater equality and respect between the sexes, the fact that women and men can and do behave badly towards each other.

MissAdventure Thu 01-Feb-18 08:51:27

Oppression is oppression is oppression. Whether its by a patriarchal society, or "feminists" deciding what is and isn't appropriate for others.

gillybob Thu 01-Feb-18 08:50:49

My late husbands first job was in a large office ( where we met) he was only one of maybe a dozen men ( managers of course) working with 100’s of women of all ages. They nipped his bum, they made lewd comments, grabbed him and god knows what else . Luckily he had a fantastic sense of humour and perfected the “ put down” but anyone a bit shyer would have been thoroughly miserable.

gillybob Thu 01-Feb-18 08:46:49

Oh dear me no Oldwoman women surely don’t grope men? Do they ?

I really can’t see why they have felt the need to stop the brolly dollies in formula 1 .
This is all getting crazy .

Anniebach Thu 01-Feb-18 08:40:19

The women choose to do the work, same as page 3 girls, glamour models, they are victims of other women

all this pious ranting as led to just two or three men losing their jobs , charites losing a lot if money and women losing their jobs. And a newspaper selling more copies.

Were Bunnies Girls naive? When Christine Keeler died a forceful voice on this thread claimed Keeler was naive !

Nightclub hostess, mistress of Rachman was naive .

Where is equality in all this, some women disapprove of work chosen by other women and jobs are lost, all in the pretence of saving these women who haven't asked to be saved

Oldwoman70 Thu 01-Feb-18 08:38:39

The treatment some of these women experienced is totally out of order, however, can we not tar all the men there with the same brush or accuse them of lying if they say they saw nothing untoward. I can be in a room with 50 people and not see or know what is happening the other side of that room.

Whilst we are talking about groping, I wonder whether this is an accusation which can be made against Fern Britton who is pictured today grabbing Alastair Stewart, almost knocking him off his feet and kissing him.

gillybob Thu 01-Feb-18 08:27:08

There are some quite famous and rich women who started their modelling careers as being brolly dollies for formula 1 .

gillybob Thu 01-Feb-18 08:23:33

I stand by my points eloethan . The woman’s right to earn money however she likes.
But let’s remember that this sort of demeaning “Work” is surely the opposite to being liberated. They were effectively working as teasers to get the men to shell out more money .

suzied Thu 01-Feb-18 08:17:06

Working for a couple of days at a formula one or similar event is not a profession, it’s casual work, maybe well paid, but it’s not a year round “job” that these poor women are being denied. Maybe they’ll employ men and women in equal numbers to hold up the odd placard if it’s essential.

Anniebach Thu 01-Feb-18 08:12:20

The reporters could have taken photographs , who filmed the video we have seen ?

Discussion between a girl who worked as a walk on girl at formula 1 events and a feminist over the girl having now lost a well,paid job and was out of work

The feminist told her to get an education

All heart are these feminists,

durhamjen Wed 31-Jan-18 23:57:26

Lots of the men at this dinner would also have been at a similar event at the Tory party conference every year.
They didn't behave like that at the conferences, so what gave them the right to behave like that at this fund-raising event?

Bridgeit Wed 31-Jan-18 22:44:57

2 of the ladies were working under cover secretly filming allegedly

Bridgeit Wed 31-Jan-18 22:44:03

There is a video clip on ITV available to see on line

MaizieD Wed 31-Jan-18 22:34:57

no photographs supporting the allegations,

How could there be any photos? The girls had their phones taken from them (and there was certainly nowhere in their 'uniforms' where they could hide one)

MaizieD Wed 31-Jan-18 22:32:06

I don’t actually know Annibach,I’m just going by what I have read.

Have you read the original article by the Financial Times journalist who went undercover?

Bridgeit Wed 31-Jan-18 22:31:49

I guess that will be the job of the investigator & what ever visual evidence is available, the visual evidence will be the most telling I would think

Anniebach Wed 31-Jan-18 22:28:37

I didn't mean actors who may have been at that event, actors who have been accused but no investigations made

Bridgeit Wed 31-Jan-18 22:26:38

?Annibach