Gillybob why is using secondhand rather than new clothes automatically considered a poor second best? My instinct is always to reuse or rescue or buy secondhand and only if that fails, buy new. That applies whether for myself or family - and it is not poverty driven.
My children until they were about 5 wore hand me downs from friends, or clothes bought from charity shops. I was dressedly similarly when I was young and still have no hang-ups about doing the same today. I would be hard pressed to find a single piece of bought new furniture in my house.
As for your hang=up about the Royal family, they strike me as very ordinary people and rather dull compelled to live extrodinary lives. If I want to met the real odd balls, eccentrics and completely barking mad. I need only walk the half mile from my house to the village shop, Almost all my neighbours are delightfully off the wall.