All donations of tea and cake to this household will be gratefully accepted. Three small kids and a c section wound is no joke, friends 
I wanted to throw in something on the point about the workless needing to get a job. There’s a big disconnect between the political policy of “get them off welfare and into work” and the real world deliverability of that policy, and it hinges on something no one really wants to address, because it’s unpleasant and complicated.
The truth is that many of the long term workless in the UK are genuinely unemployable in the present labour market.
It’s possible, if you have parents who are unable or unwilling to be particularly supportive of your education, and you yourself are of average or lower intelligence, and not especially motivated, to pass through all the years of compulsory education in the UK and emerge without any recognised qualification. I don’t mean kids with learning needs or behavioural issues here - they are already mostly screwed, if we look honestly at the statistics - I mean your fairly lower average kid who never acts up enough to attract anyone’s remedial attention. A young relative of mine has recently completed education by failing all her external examinations for the third time, and to the consternation of herself and her parents, is finding out she is unemployable. She is a well presented polite kid from an upper working class (they would argue lower middle class) household with two parents consistently in skilled work, but the poor lamb is discovering she is unemployable because she has no qualifications.
Now, extrapolate that to kids all over the country who have managed to pick up official attention for learning needs, behavioural issues, a difficult family background. They are competing for work in a market where almost fifty percent of kids have (or are on track to get) a university degree. Even more are in college. These kids have no qualifications at all. It is quite possible, indeed terrifyingly so, to leave education in the UK being either or both functionally illiterate and innumerate.
The thing that has changed in our labour market from previous generations is that there is very, very little unskilled manual work left for these kids to do. The UK is a services economy. If you are ‘not good at school’, there is no mine to go down. You better have been good enough at school (and outgoing enough!) to be able to do shop work, oh and forget being even a junior manager - the assistant shift manager jobs at McDonalds et al are all graduate recruitment only these days.
(Btw, this is not a dig at folk who work in shops or McDonalds. I’ve had a lot of jobs in my life and I assure you, most of them were not fancy at all. I have flipped many a burger and been glad for the money)
And I haven’t touched on the middle aged people in their thirties and forties who are in the same boat, plus add a sparse work history and often a list of health problems.
If you were an employer, are you falling all over yourself to hire underqualified candidates who you might consider likely to be unreliable? Are you hell.
There is a huge gap between the number of people who might be considered by the govt to be physically fit to work, and the likelihood of even most of these people getting employment.
I know some of you like me have worked with deprivation issues, and I do not disrespect these people when I say: you are expecting them to do something the job market is not set up for them to do. I don’t have a magic cure for this problem in my back pocket, either. You can’t get a job if no one will give you one.