I think you're wrong there is still a core of the hatred thats been there for centuries.My friend recently had a weekend in Derry ,didn't think to check the area out that the hotel was in before they booked.The taxi driver who dropped them off asked them some questions and then advised them not to leave the hotel unless in a group or to go to certain pubs .There are still areas "decorated" with the huge murals of soldiers with guns and No Surrender and its not an isolated case.It still the ssame in other parts on NI too .
It is totally unreasonable to walk away from this issue ,apart from anything else if it escalates, as it 's likely ,the Troubles are apt to spill over to the mainland .I'm sure the people of England dont want a repeat of the past either .
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(364 Posts)An Irishman tries yet again to explain the huge Brexit problem with NI. In response to yet another airy dismissal by Boris Johnson:
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Patrick Kielty @patrickielty
And please.... please don't tell me it's "our money" or that the UK government would have done it anyway because I can't be bothered to take you by the hand, lead you to a corner and explain simple things in words of one syllable
1. Northern Ireland is made up of a majority of Unionists (as in the Conservative and Unionist Party) and, believe it or not, a rather large minority of Nationalists (as in Irish Nationalists)
2. These Irish Nationalists don’t see themselves as British but rather inconveniently as Irish (who knew?)
3. For over 30 years we killed each other because of these differences which means Northern Ireland is nothing like Camden or Westminster.
4. The Good Friday Agreement ended that violence by the following devious magic - Unionists were guaranteed that Northern Ireland would be part of the UK until the majority voted otherwise.
The Irish was border was removed and the island linked so Nationalists could pretend they were already living in a United Ireland (yes, Tony Blair did slight of hand much better than you)
5. Some of these Nationalists then accepted being part of the UK as their day to day lives were essentially Irish.
6. This cunning plan was sold to us on the basis that we were all part of the EU therefore fixation on nationality was so last World War.
7. Implementing the Good Friday Agreement was torturous (think Brexit with actual bombs, not metaphorical suicide vests) but we finally made peace. Yet 20 years later NI remains a divided society.
8. Thanks to your glorious Brexit vision Northern Ireland will become more divided as some form of economic border checks will become part of daily lives.
9. If those checks take place between NI and Ireland, the Nationalists who were once happy being part of the UK will change their mind.
10. If they take place in the Irish Sea some Unionists will be livid. However they'll still support being part of the UK (the clue is in the Unionist bit)
11. Your Brexit lies have opened a Pandora’s box for Northern Ireland. It's one reason why the majority of people in NI voted to remain in the EU (almost as if they knew more about the fragile equilibrium of their politics than you)
12. Barely mentioned before Brexit, a border poll is now inevitable thanks to your monumental ignorance.
13. When that poll is eventually held the Nationalists who were once content being part of a Northern Ireland within the UK and EU will vote to leave the UK to feel as Irish and European as they did before Brexit.
14. The poll will be much closer thanks to your Brexit folly and could easily be lost by Unionists, breaking up the UK.
15. Any break up of the Union will be your fault (a tad inconvenient as a member of the Conservative and er, Unionist party)
16. The EU is not responsible for your blundering lack of foresight. Like most people in Northern Ireland they were happy with the status quo.
17. By the time the penny drops that you can’t preserve the Union you want without the one you don’t, it will be too late.
18. You will be remembered not as the Churchillian visionary you delude yourself to be but the ignoramus who triggered the break up of the UK.
19. If there’s any justice all this will come to pass when you're Prime Minister so you can finally swim in the constitutional sewage you've created (though we all know you’ll be in Nice with your trotters up)
20. Meantime, if you’re so concerned about keeping Northern Ireland totally aligned with the rest of the UK where’s your support for our same sex marriage and women’s right to choose? Your silence is deafening.
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In a nutshell, so to speak 
There is no solution to the Irish Problem other than to cancel Brexit and the only way we can do that is by a People's Vote. My view is that in the long run there should be a United Ireland, the level of hatred in Ireland is getting less. The people of Northern Ireland should have a vote to stay in the UK or join the Irish Republic.
If it says 'remain' then there is no problem- stay as it is, simple.
You're right Jura2 far too simplistic a solution.
So what happens when there is a second vote and it says remain?
Or are you ruling out a second vote ?
Why would ROI change, because a great deal of its trade is with or through the UK. A hard border is going to cost them a great deal
Yes, thanks, forgot the 'not'.
People with second homes do not go on 'holiday' for 1 week or 2, - they go to their second home, which happens to be across the border rather than in Devon or the Lakes ... and they go for many weeks at a time, even months- as they have chosen homes in the country where their pets are welcome.
We never come to UK for less than 3 weeks at a time- but many going to France do so for the whole Summer, and as said, months at a time.
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I think you are exaggerating. We do not know what the exact arrangements will be for small animals. Second home owners by definition are unlikely to end up with nothing and if they can afford to travel to and fro on a regular basis, they can also afford to make the necessary arrangements for their pets.
I don’t take Hattie on holiday even in this country, she goes to kennels. My friend with a horse and two donkeys arranges “pet care” in her own way.
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You don't seem to care- and that is your prerogative of course- but don't pretend that many will be seriously affected in ways they could never have planned for, or imagined
Did you really mean that?
Or did you mean will NOT be seriously affected ?
Well, I am with you on that one - and yet...
when people are pushed to the brink, with no plan B possible but to come home with nothing at all, they get desperate and put themselves and their families first.
As for Hattie- you know jolly well the answer to that. But there are 1000s with second homes in France who travel back and forth with pets all the time, and 10s of 1000s of Brits in EU who regularly come home to visit family and friends - with their pets- and who probably won't be able to do so in future. Like ourselves.
You don't seem to care- and that is your prerogative of course- but don't pretend that many will be seriously affected in ways they could never have planned for, or imagined.
Seriously, if that is the attitude to their animals of any expats living abroad , they can stay abroad and good riddance.
OMG you are not saying Hattie might be deported? ????
Oh yes, Maw- our Emma has hers, Danish, with Swiss and French vet stamps in it. And she comes back and forth with us, to our family and friends in the UK - she has also been to Italy with us, and goes to France many times a week.
Minou 3 legs has his too- issued in France although he lives in Switzerland- although he tends to stay behind with our wonderful French neighbour looking after him.
But the VERY POINT is - that those EU passports will no longer be valid soon to and from UK. That means that those with pets will no longer be able to travel to visit family, or to go on holiday. As during the last financial crisis, when 1000s of Brits living in France were hit badly and could not sell their home, they will probably be left behind- like last time. Dogs, cats, chickens, donkeys, horses and so many more- abandonned at the local spa in boxes- or just left in the garden - with the key under the matt and no forwarding address. That is the reality on the ground.
Emma is wonderful - but at 13, very disturbed by the trauma her owners put her through before we took her on. Euthanazed her son who was 11 - and dumped her on our doorstep. She is gorgeous, but we just could not leave her in kennels or with anyone- as long as she is with us, she is very happy. So, what would we choose- visiting our grandchildren? Or Emma?
Sorry, Diana, but I don't believe you have quite thought this one through- somehow.
Why should Ireland (by which I presume you mean the ROI) have to change its customs arrangements to suit the UK?
And I don't think that the EU would approve such an agreement; it would have to be EU wide, surely?
Staying in the EU with a customs union, that would probably suit Scotland too.
Rather than have a hard border maybe Ireland would join the UK in the same customs union i.e.:- Norway model
I know this has not been mooted but may be a solution, Ireland really, really does not want a border it is in their interest to find an agreement.
share, even?
No, but this is pretty irrelevant to putting forward solutions for the border. Have you got one to shrare, please?
There is no solution to Ireland while the Unionists oppose any talk of unification , right or wrong that's the way it is. While there was an open border the problem went into remission but was not eliminated, it will return unless there is a customs union.
The was one final solution that was talked about a lot at the height of the troubles .
Tow Ireland out into the Atlantic and sink it!. There wasnt a large enough tug available.
Unless we want to turn the clock back 40 yrs an agreement is needed or the violence will resume.
'I haven’t applied for one but I’m eligible for an Irish passport so I’ll probably pick one up. I also voted Leave in the referendum and would do so again, with redoubled enthusiasm. There's nothing hypocritical about collecting another passport. Firstly, I’m entitled to it and there might just be some advantage to be had e.g. using a slightly shorter queue to leave an airport. But by far the best reason is that my Remain friends will go utterly ballistic with indignation.
I’ll have to pick my time— perhaps in the middle of another heated discussion on the pros and cons of EU membership. "I don’t care any more if Brits won’t get preferential treatment applying for jobs in the EU," I’ll say. They’ll ask why not. I’ll reach into my inside pocket, pull out my Irish passport and give it a triumphant little twirl. Their faces! '
This is the kind of thing I am talking about as being vastly hypocritical. Can't give my sources, but a real case of someone who is living very comfortably abroad.
My sil is 49- and grew up on the border. We were walking in their small town in England, and a car backfired as it went past. He threw himself on the ground with his arms and hands around his head.
I just could not understand what was going on and I laughed- what he told me was NOT funny, at all. It was all so recent.
I watched a programme about the "Troubles" late last night ,it was heartbreaking .God help those who may be facing a return to those situations and shame on Westminster for not keeping the Good Friday agreement in place to safeguard families like the ones shown .From BOTH sides of the divide they were left bereft and broken and we seem uncaring about repeating the whole sorry mess when we can keep the peace so easily.It is an uneasy peace but it has held and will if nothing is changed .
It does not seem quite 'Democratic', does it? If citizens live abroad for 15 years, they lose their vote- but Lords who have a massive influence on politics, can live on the moon and continue to do so?
I think that he is in the H of L only because he has a British peerage. Where he lives is irrelevant; it's the peerage itself and its British origin which entitles him to his seat. He could live on the moon and still be entitled to sit in the UK H of L.
jura2 I seldom agree with you but - I guess the H of L are not subject to the rules of the general public.
I would like to know, re Nigel Lawson, how can he be permanently resident in France, pay his taxes in France, etc, etc, and still be allowed to take his seat in the Lords. Surely, residents abroad should not be allowed to do so.
Does anyone know the rules re the Lords?
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