Day6, for the first time there is much in your above post I can agree with. However, I have to say that it was an attempt to resolve long-running problems in the Tory party that brought about the referendum and all the problems have escalated from there.
With the Labour party, the problems have arisen from what is seen as having too much democracy in the party. In that, thirteen thousand grassroots members from all sections of the Labour movement attended the party conference in September and set the Brexit policy.
However, in the above, I feel that no one could have foreseen just how dramatically and rapidly the Brexit situation would change in the few months since that conference. That policy cannot be changed at present without a recall conference even though many feel (including me) that it has to change and quickly.
Therfore, Day6 I hope we can agree further that both parties are locked by internal situations that make it difficult if not impossible for their leaders to bring about the flexibility required to end this crisis.
After all, Day6, if you and I can agree on that, I will believe that democracy can survive in any crisis.
Well, you have at least try to look on the light side even in this situation.