Are you a SW or mental health professional?
If so, you can give me some free advice.
I'm very content not to be the same as the herd, to not have the herd mentality.
I value my independent train of thought and the fact that I don't need to have my views confirmed or applauded by anyone else in order to feel good.
I need no chorus of approbation.
Obviously, it works for me as I have no financial worries or health issues whatsoever and my home, family and social lives are as lively and interesting as I want to make them.
I wish you well.