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Putting Humpty Dumpty together again

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grannyactivist Tue 26-Mar-19 09:20:06

There is going to come a point where, whether we have left or remain in Europe, we need to put this whole sorry mess behind us and build bridges between people. The issue of Brexit has been extremely divisive, setting even friends and family members against each other in some cases.

Looking forward to a time of reconciliation does anyone have any ideas as to how this may be achieved? Across the globe there have been many formal 'Truth and Reconciliation' Commissions set up to address conflict situations nationally, so I wonder whether there is something to be learned from those that will help us to heal our divided nation? I do think that in the short term it will come down to people intentionally wanting to move forward in some sort of harmony.

janeainsworth Wed 27-Mar-19 13:46:04

Which bit of my comment was snobbish, gilly?

The bit about Nissan, or the bit about Sharon Binks? Is she a friend of yours?

kittylester Wed 27-Mar-19 13:43:17

Surely, it isn't just that remainers should accept that leavers are entitled to an opinion, the opposite is true too.

gillybob Wed 27-Mar-19 13:39:02

What a pair of snobs you are trisher and janea.

I do not live in Sunderland, but there are some lovely areas and some not so nice areas, pretty much like everywhere else really.

janeainsworth Wed 27-Mar-19 12:36:35

Crystaltipps For your information, although it is possible that some nice people live in Sunderland I am sure, it is a hotbed of far-right extremism. Google Sharon Binks.
The inhabitants also voted to leave the E.U. , despite being the recipients of large amounts of E.U. funding and despite this being the death knell for car production at the Sunderland Nissan plant, which is the main employer in the region.

trisher Wed 27-Mar-19 09:59:52

^Sunderland as the new capital. ^- have you ever been there crystaltipps???
In that case please can we move Hadrian's wall south a bit and I'll be in Scotland.

crystaltipps Wed 27-Mar-19 09:53:50

This thread is developing into he said/ she said and that wasn’t the intention at all was it? Maybe the only solution is to annex part of the country as the Brits did in NI. London could be a city state within the EU, it’s bigger than lots of independent countries, the rest of England and Wales could leave and be happy on their own with Sunderland as the new capital. Scotland independent as well.

Gonegirl Wed 27-Mar-19 09:52:15

I think the possible shortage of staff in our hospitals is worrying, but I do not think that will clause civil unrest or bad relations in communities.

There is already of shortage of people to pick daffodils. Worrying but possibly not riot causig.

maryeliza54 Wed 27-Mar-19 09:43:15

petra your post re TB is a lie.

petra Wed 27-Mar-19 08:05:48

Urmstongran
Are you aware that the 'man of the people' Tony Benn shut off the public footpath ( part of the sea wall) in front of his house, Stansgate Abbey Farm so that that hoi polloi couldn't see into the front garden.

BlueBelle Wed 27-Mar-19 04:49:34

Crystaltips very good posts
urmstrong your last post says it all, it s playground talk Do you not realise there is NO democracy in a referendum that was not only unnecessary but was NOT binding it was advisory only and yet we are following blindly down a route that can not only ruin our country financially, ruin any standing we have in the world, destabilised our relationship with NI, destabilised the EU itself and leave us in economic decay for decades and for what
What did EU ever do wrong for us?

crystaltipps Wed 27-Mar-19 03:37:26

urmstongran your reply is a prime example of how to increase division. You obviously truly believe “insults” are only one way, but maybe that is not the reality for others.

crystaltipps Wed 27-Mar-19 02:55:43

Those who say “we survived the war” forget the millions who didn’t survive. It’s a totally insulting analogy. As for “we survived the reformation”....words fail.

trisher Tue 26-Mar-19 20:58:15

Joelsnan the problem of the loss of cultures is not caused by the EU. It is the result of the influence of American and British media which have flooded countries with material. The homogenous lifestyle which results loses the individual characteristics of those countries. The EU spends money supporting and developing traditional culture so that it is not lost for ever. At they same time they provide opportunities for countries to develop and build their own cultural organisations. The fact that something has existed for centuries does not guarantee its future.

Lollin Tue 26-Mar-19 20:51:35

shock

Urmstongran Tue 26-Mar-19 20:45:09

How to heal the division? I’ve an idea.

Remainers need to stop insulting people who view the world differently to themselves. Brexiteers are people with a perfectly legitimate opinion, remainers need to acknowledge that and accept a democratic decision didn’t go their way, it happens.

Joelsnan Tue 26-Mar-19 20:34:54

trisher
^once again a mis-conception of what the EU is about. The lack of publicity given to EU initiatives and funding is partly responsible for the Brexit problem.The EU funds cultural events and in 2018 had the EU year of Culture.
The year will see a series of initiatives and events across Europe to enable people to become closer to and more involved with their cultural heritage. Cultural heritage shapes our identities and everyday lives. It surrounds us in Europe's towns and cities, natural landscapes and archaeological sites. It is not only found in literature, art and objects, but also in the crafts we learn from our ancestors, the stories we tell to our children, the food we enjoy in company and the films we watch and recognise ourselves in.
In other words the EU is preserving cultures that would otherwise be lost^
Each country has its own rich culture and history each displaying the same for centuries before the EU deemed what was appropriate to display and where and using taxation from the workers of countries which may not have been adequately represented.

janeainsworth Tue 26-Mar-19 20:10:15

PGAgirl have you forgotten that Henry 8th’s reign was marked by the Dissolution of the monasteries and the persecution of Catholics which persisted for hundreds of years?

Max0403 Tue 26-Mar-19 19:56:55

I was saddened when we voted to leave the EU and, if I had the opportunity I would vote Remain again in a heartbeat; however what concerns me most is the time and resources that are being devoted to Brexit while the services that keep people safe and well are being quietly dismantled around us.

Gonegirl Tue 26-Mar-19 19:45:11

PGAgirl did we have a vote on that one? confused

Urmstongran Tue 26-Mar-19 19:43:31

Actually in business, you do what your patrons tell you to do. It's a pity many of our politicos don't grasp this simple survival principal.

Urmstongran Tue 26-Mar-19 19:28:24

JRM made a business decision, to protect those for whom, he acts financially.

Had we more who understood finance , and the world, the UK would not be in the fiscal mess that we are now in.

I am not one of his company’s clients, nor do I have more than modest means.

What saddens me is that there are people who can only bawl and shout from ignorance.

I remember that wonderful champion of egalitarian socialism, Anthony Wedgewood Benn, who died leaving £5 million sovereigns and six pence.

How much inheritance tax was paid by his sons ?.......six pence,

Did you shout hypocrite , then ?

No. I thought not.

trisher Tue 26-Mar-19 19:27:26

RosieLeah once again a mis-conception of what the EU is about. The lack of publicity given to EU initiatives and funding is partly responsible for the Brexit problem.The EU funds cultural events and in 2018 had the EU year of Culture.
The year will see a series of initiatives and events across Europe to enable people to become closer to and more involved with their cultural heritage. Cultural heritage shapes our identities and everyday lives. It surrounds us in Europe's towns and cities, natural landscapes and archaeological sites. It is not only found in literature, art and objects, but also in the crafts we learn from our ancestors, the stories we tell to our children, the food we enjoy in company and the films we watch and recognise ourselves in.
In other words the EU is preserving cultures that would otherwise be lost

Cherrytree59 Tue 26-Mar-19 19:18:43

Scotland, England, Wales and Nothern Ireland either together or separately have lived through far worse times.

Once Brexit is sorted one way or t'other, fuure events will become news.
Minds will quite quickly shift to what is affecting our Country at that particular time.

As long as we don't continually 'pick the scab' I have no doubt that we the people of the United kindom will move on.
Whats the alternative?

minesaprosecco Tue 26-Mar-19 19:17:28

If the referendum result had been of a bigger percentage for either side, then it would have been accepted far more readily by everyone, and the aftermath far easier to deal with. All the Leavers who say they would have accepted the referendum if it had gone the other way are not, in my mind, aware of just how they would have felt. David Cameron let the country down by both having the referendum in the first place, and by allowing it to be a straight majority win. It should have been at least 60% in favour of one side. With it so close, it is going to take a very long time to bring about reconciliation. As for comparing it to Tudor times - well, the following few millenia didn't show much reconciliation for the Catholics! They didn't even get the vote until the late 18th century. I sincerely hope it doesn't take three hundred years or so to bring us together this time (but it just mightangry).

RosieLeah Tue 26-Mar-19 18:52:38

The main reason I voted Leave is because I don't like the idea of a United States of Europe. Each European country has its own identity and culture. The intention is to erode that (as is happening) and replace it with 'One State, One people). I think that would be a tragedy.