JenniferEccles I think many women of our generation did give up work when they had children if they had a husband or partner who was in work. In the main many of us 'scraped by' on one salary or did part-time jobs to fit around family life for a few years or did child minding.
However, many of us did return to work when children started school, although not all did. As women are seen as primarily the carers, many then found they were caring for elderly, possibly disabled, relatives.
I was grateful for the offer of childcare from a friend who never went back to outside work as it would have been impossible to juggle everything, child care, parent care, a job, otherwise.
There is no shame in not returning to work; having a parent there full-time may be beneficial for young children and caring for elderly relatives can be exhausting and probably saved the State a fortune too.