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Political Correctness or just ridiculous

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Firecracker123 Thu 13-Aug-20 14:25:05

A bra not for the easily offended it seems.

Smileless2012 Fri 14-Aug-20 10:26:52

the word was "chamber"

Gas chambers were where those poor souls were gassed; the ovens were where their remains were disposed of.

I agree Jane10 about Elegran's post and "better not say anything at all".

Callistemon Fri 14-Aug-20 10:23:14

FarNorth

^the colour isn’t great for underwear is it?^

From someone completely missing the point that the customer who complained was looking for something to match her skin colour.

But she'll never be able to do that will she!
Skin tones vary so much there would never be enough bras in the universe to match everyone's skin colour.

Chardy tobacco is a poison
And so is Opium
There was also a perfume called Poison

Smileless2012 Fri 14-Aug-20 10:13:54

Such nastiness on this thread. Surprising for so many who are quick to call out when they feel bullied. Racism treated as a joke. It's disgusting.

Unless bullying is racially motivated, what's bullying got to do with it?

Racism and bullying can have serious psychological consequences for the victim and neither should be trivialised.

I agree that treating racism as a joke is disgusting, which is why I'm disgusted by a woman claiming that describing the colour of a dark bra as tobacco, in comparison to 'lighter' bras being given names of "sweet treats and deserts" is racist.

This trivialises a very serious issue.

Jane10 Fri 14-Aug-20 10:11:59

Better not say anything at all really. Oops. Sorry if I offended someone by saying that.

Pantglas2 Fri 14-Aug-20 10:08:54

Free people didn’t harvest cotton either - where ARE we going on this?

Jane10 Fri 14-Aug-20 09:55:25

Elegran's explanation was extremely clear and summed up the situation perfectly.

TwiceAsNice Fri 14-Aug-20 09:54:11

Free people did not harvest tobacco. At that time nobody realised it was harmful. White people do not have a huge history of slavery so sorry I see her point.

I know some stuff is very politically correct and as a white person we may not take notice of names in the same way but that doesn’t mean firms can’t think about how to name things. As for Amazon N****r brown is horrendous.

Starblaze Fri 14-Aug-20 09:49:07

Elegran also the word was "chamber" not at all comparable and not anything that is likely to come up in conversation with a Jewish person. Making the comparison as some sort of point? Bad taste.

vegansrock Fri 14-Aug-20 09:35:49

elegran I don’t think opium is the name commonly used these days “street” names more often used. Many drug users wouldn’t know the name Opium so I doubt anyone would be offended by that - you are trying to make something out of nothing. Maybe you should complain to YSL. The fact is M and S did get a complaint and they decided to change the name. Maybe mis marketing more than anything else. There’s nothing much attractive about tobacco to be fair. To my mind tobacco brown is about an attractive a name as shitbrown.

Starblaze Fri 14-Aug-20 09:24:12

Elegran I didn't answer that comment because I thought the comment was in very poor taste indeed and I don't know why you can't see that.

Chewbacca Fri 14-Aug-20 09:22:42

Chewbacca and many others seem determined to completely swerve round the point while looking the other way and shouting loudly.

No FarNorth I just think that the whole issue of a colour of a bra being called "racist" or insensitive towards people of colour is utterly ridiculous and, as others have already pointed out, it trivialises the whole subject of what racism actually is. Would you happen to have the answer to Elegran's question at all?

eazybee Fri 14-Aug-20 08:01:44

The complaint is 'just ridiculous,' but not for M & S, because given the undue amount of publicity it has received, it will very likely affect their sales.

Elegran Fri 14-Aug-20 08:00:02

No-one replied to me mentioning the perfume Opium. There have been no reports of anyone complaining that they were a recovered addict looking for a perfume to match their personality, and were distressed by this name.

Elegran Fri 14-Aug-20 07:55:11

Deleted because it reiterates a previously deleted comment.

FarNorth Fri 14-Aug-20 07:24:27

Chewbacca and many others seem determined to completely swerve round the point while looking the other way and shouting loudly.

FarNorth Fri 14-Aug-20 07:21:16

the colour isn’t great for underwear is it?

From someone completely missing the point that the customer who complained was looking for something to match her skin colour.

ladymuck Fri 14-Aug-20 07:13:51

There was a time when 'flesh-coloured' was quite normal. I suppose that's no longer the case?

vegansrock Fri 14-Aug-20 06:43:16

I hate tobacco as both my parents died from smoking related diseases plus the colour isn’t great for underwear is it? However, That’s my opinion so I wouldn’t complain about it - just wouldn’t buy it. However, this isn’t political correctness it was one customer complaining.

Pantglas2 Fri 14-Aug-20 06:35:04

Unfortunately, if you start bringing colour connotations of bras, biscuits and paint charts into the serious realm of racism, sexism, etc you trivialise it.

I like Ginger Nuts which could upset red haired people. I like Treacle Toffee which could upset black people. Do those things need to be renamed?

Summerlove Fri 14-Aug-20 03:44:53

So much nastiness on this thread.

Surprising for so many who are quick to call out when they feel bullied.

Racism treated as a joke. It’s disgusting.

Chewbacca Thu 13-Aug-20 23:52:09

Ok. Let's not call the bra tobacco coloured.

welbeck Thu 13-Aug-20 23:43:09

that's a very good point Granny23.
maybe it's like the dinner party, with boorish person going on and on.
as a diversion of negative energy i find myself stamping on the ornate table leg. the lady at right angles is looking stressed.
eventually she whispers apologetically, sorry but you are treading on my toes.
now should i say, how ridiculous a statement. i've never met you before. i have no ill will towards you at all. why are you accusing me. should she keep quiet to humour me. or should i be informed to how my actions are affecting her.

Chewbacca Thu 13-Aug-20 23:42:23

Ok Granny23 I've had a look at the OED definition for "I'll bred" and it says

badly brought up or rude.
"this officer was so ill-bred that he could not distinguish between claret and burgundy

I searched further, using "illegitimate" in the thesaurus and found several suggestions but none were "ill bred".

I still have the same opinion as a previous poster who said that the world seems full of unexpected opportunities to be offended.

Granny23 Thu 13-Aug-20 23:33:53

But that is the point Chewbacca. Words that were a small insult in my mind, where the worst possible condemnation to my friends - as bad as if I had called them "b*st*rds.

Chewbacca Thu 13-Aug-20 23:13:26

I thought that ill bred was "badly brought up or bad mannered" too and have never heard it referred to as illegitimate.