LucyLocket55
The family’s impact statements had me in tears, those poor, poor people and their lovely daughter. That evil man …
However, there but for the grace of God go I. 12 years ago my elder daughter (aged 23) drove to see a friend in London, in the time of clunky sat navs. She took a wrong turn somewhere and ended up in a less than salubrious area, she was waiting at a traffic lights when her car was bumped from behind. Two men got out and told her that she needed to pull round the corner so they could sort this out. She felt something was not right so she locked the doors and they started banging on the door and roof and shouting at her to go round the corner. A car going the opposite way stopped and a man got out, he was an off duty policeman who took control, and the two men fled. He then escorted my daughter to her friends house and the next day she found a note under her windscreen saying if she was worried about anything to contact his police station.
I still thank God for that policeman..
... reading what happened to your daughter made my blood run cold.
What a traumatic experience. It must still haunt her. But at least she's now probably very conscious of the danger out there.
I was once driving home late from the office, alone. The route involved a long and narrow isolated country lane (in Surrey) and I was keeping the speed limit of 50 when a car sped up behind me. I could see through my mirror that it was a man (he was that close) and I increased my speed to get away from him - he did the same. In the end I was doing 70 along this narrow deserted road (I'd only recently passed my test) and was scared out of my wits... at 70 he was still almost touching my bumper. When I reached the end of the lane and entered the village I lived in he continued along a different route.
I will never know whether he was simply an impatient driver (he could see I was a woman because I had long hair at the time) or whether he intended harm. I suspect the latter - because impatient drivers usually honk their horns at you when you've finally got out of their way. He didn't.
It haunts me to this day and it was over 30 years ago, it's nothing compared to what happened to your daughter, so I can imagine that she still thinks about what might have happened.
Just how much longer are women going to have to put up with male aggression and violence!