Callistemon21
By perpetuating the social mores that achieving a place at Oxford or Cambridge is the pinnacle of achievement, as some are doing on this thread, is devaluing the achievements of the majority of society.
I'm not doing that at all!
However, there is no denying that Oxford and Cambridge open doors. They give the students who go there an advantage they will never lose. It's not just about earning money for a comfortable lifestyle, but power. Those who make the important decisions about how the country is run disproportionately have been to Oxford or Cambridge. The country has a very narrow base of decision makers.
You are right that I've had many years of experience as a secondary school teacher and, of course, I have applauded successes. However, I have come across young people who have been discouraged from higher education (never mind Oxford or Cambridge) by parental (or grandparental) pressure. They were as bright as anybody, but they just weren't allowed choices. It's that kind of attitude which Birbalsingh is encouraging.
Birbalsingh is the daughter of university academics and went to Oxford. Why shouldn't she encourage her able pupils to go to Oxford too? I'm afraid I find her attitude (and not just on this issue) deeply patronising. Not only that, but she's paid out of the public purse to work for six days a month as the country's social mobility tsar. If she doesn't believe in social mobility, maybe she should consider what she's actually paid to do.