LizzieDrip
I have no idea why you feel as you do, but whereas if I did know I would try to be sensitive to your feelings, it wouldn't really alter mine - how could it?
You asked if I would be happy to be treated by a male nurse, and I answered yes. Would I care what he did in this private life - no. Nobody else has said anything very different, have they?
Accusing people of transphobia is serious, yet you make that claim on very little evidence. All anyone has said is that it is not on for a transwoman to claim to BE a woman. Be a transwoman by all means, but don't make false claims, particularly when in a role where touching women intimately is routine.
Flouncing rather than engaging does not further your cause, unfortunately - whatever it is.