I have never said, or thought, that people don't deserve anything. I answered a direct question, knowing full well that if I said what I thought I would get an insulting reply. Those who can't work because of illness or whatever, should, IMO, be supported for as long as they need it, and as I've said, I think that taxation should increase so that social funding is better from cradle to grave, although if it doesn't fund spending, maybe we should all stop paying any?
No, not paying work expenses isn't a tax break, but when you take off the expenses of working, and add in childcare, the two-worker household is often no better off than the single-earner one, but taxation comes off before any of that is considered.
Yes, everyone pays tax of one sort or another, but the thread is about paying NI into retirement, not VAT.
I am still considering doing a course in economics after Christmas, at which point I might agree that taxation doesn't fund spending (although I reserve the right to disagree), but that's not really material to this discussion anyway - if you work you pay income tax, wherever it goes, and if you don't, you don't. That doesn't mean that if you don't you are cheating or worthless, or that I think any of the things you ascribed to me - but if we are discussing changing the system so that pensioners who have paid in for decades should be asked to pay more for longer, I see no reason why SAHPs should get a free ride. I'm sorry if that upsets you, but I am as entitled to my point of view as you are to yours.