sazz1
Well we agree on one thing maddyone. There is no way I would have gone home even if it was 22 hours. But she's my neighbour and a good friend so I didn't say anything but tried not to look shocked when she told me the next day.
You’ve answered my point from a different thread sazz1 but we understand what we’re talking about, it’s just that others won’t. I totally understand why it was difficult for you to comment when you’re friend told you, but I think I might have expressed an opinion. I think anyone who won’t wait at a hospital for eight hours with a child with suspected meningitis is very irresponsible, because despite the long wait, the parent and child were at least in a hospital where should the child have taken a turn for the worse suddenly, then they were in the right place. The GP Practice is never the right place for a child with suspected meningitis because they will simply send for an ambulance or send the parent to hospital, whichever is the quicker. The GP will understand the urgency of the situation and act accordingly. Your friend was extremely irresponsible to take her child home and leave her child without any prospect of any treatment overnight, because a more serious situation might easily have developed. And I also think your friend is out of order to complain about a lack of care because she absented herself and her child from the place where she would have received care. Had a very serious situation developed, then the parent would have been responsible for anything that transpired, but doubtless she would have blamed everyone else except herself.
