FarNorth
^The number of people having genital surgery is very small. Most transwomen retain their original genitalia, for a number of reasons. Are we now to examine transwomen to assertain what treatment they have had?^
You are absolutely right Glorianny.
That fact shows that it doesn't make sense to accept 'real transwomen' into women-only places as if they are actually women, since most will have male genitalia and it's impossible to know, in any case, how real anyone's trans identity is.
You have drawn attention, elsewhere, to the high level of violence to women which is committed by their male partners i.e. trusted male people.
It doesn't make sense, therefore, to extend further trust to male strangers just because they claim to be transwomen.
Sorry FarNorth your post reads to me like someone saying the bloke you are living with is most likely to abuse you, but rather than address that and discover why and how women get into such relationships I'm going to draw attention to another person and claim they might be a threat to you, although there is very little evidence to show that.
It's a bit like claiming you have to watch the netball match in the next yard, although you 're playing tennis, because the ball might come onto the court. Maybe it will but that won't help you win the tennis match.