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Well that's not true is it. I hold many different views to people on this thread am happy to search them up if it would help.

paddyann

It's a bit:

My friend's brother's dog's uncle's owner is trans and they agree with every word I say

Which is a bit unlikely because you are not allowed to deviate 1 step from the script here without bringing down a tonne of wrath and will be told what you think even on facets you agree about

Well India Willoughby surpassed any idiocy anyone could have expected! Has India always been this confused and deluded, even while male and fathering children, or did it coincide with the arrival of 'ladybrain' on transition?

Mollygo

Galaxy

Yes of course I do. How patronising you sound.
Do you know any detransitioners if so you might see it from a different point of view.
Oh and you do understand that there are gender critical transwomen and transmen or does that not fit with the narrative you have.

Exactly, Galaxy, but we’re not allowed to know anyone who is transitioning because it doesn’t fit their rhetoric.
The 23 year old detransitioner I know has a very different point of view now.

They don't actually give a moment's thought to detransitioners. Along with the "Trans community" the usual attitude is "F*ck you* you were never True Trans Compassion, sympathy, empathy, three words they don't understand if they're not trans-centred.

Galaxy

Yes of course I do. How patronising you sound.
Do you know any detransitioners if so you might see it from a different point of view.
Oh and you do understand that there are gender critical transwomen and transmen or does that not fit with the narrative you have.

Exactly, Galaxy, but we’re not allowed to know anyone who is transitioning because it doesn’t fit their rhetoric.
The 23 year old detransitioner I know has a very different point of view now.

Here we go again. Yes, I know trans and non-binary people.

Galaxy

Yes of course I do. How patronising you sound.
Do you know any detransitioners if so you might see it from a different point of view.
Oh and you do understand that there are gender critical transwomen and transmen or does that not fit with the narrative you have.

Galaxy may I suggest you go and repeatedly hit your head against a brick wall, it will be far more productive?
Anyone who has seen the distress and hopelessness of a detransitioner could surely not be so dismissive and cruel as paddyanne54 or Wyllow3 both of whom give the impression they have not one iota of compassion for people who have undergone irreversible sex reassignment surgery and now bitterly regret their mental health problems weren't addressed. As my dear mum used to say "none so blind as those who will not see" I'd be ashamed if I had no compassion for a man who regretted he'd had his penis inverted because he was assured it would cure all his ills!
One of the USA transgender surgeons is on video saying of transmen " if they regret and want breasts later they can go get some" For goodness' sake could it be any clearer?

paddyann54

Can I ask if any of you actually know anyone who has or is transitioning? If you do and I seriously doubt it, you might just might, see it all from a very different viewpoint.

Yes, but not one who'd been in prison for raping women, no, sorry.

Yes of course I do. How patronising you sound.
Do you know any detransitioners if so you might see it from a different point of view.
Oh and you do understand that there are gender critical transwomen and transmen or does that not fit with the narrative you have.

Yes, but there's no room for us here paddyann54.

Can I ask if any of you actually know anyone who has or is transitioning? If you do and I seriously doubt it, you might just might, see it all from a very different viewpoint.

VioletSky

I'm not out there with any sort of activism or petition signing or joining any kind of organised group or protest

People say they want inclusively and acceptance for trans people and only engage in active steps that achieve the opposite

Metaphorically chasing trans people back into the closet with pitchforks under the guise of protecting women for the most part

I don't know how you can't see that

The same way that you can’t see that what you say isn’t correct.
Emotive language which once again implies that everyone else condemns all trans people does no good to the trans cause and isn’t true.
Wrongly conflating trans issues with gays and lesbians -I won’t explain that again because if you didn’t understand that when Doodledog put it clearly, reading it again won’t help.

Should inclusivity be one-sided?

Galaxy

I hope someone challenges IW on some of the things they have said about lesbians, they were appalling.

IW is a nasty bit of work. IW's views on women of colour don't bear scrutiny either. In general, IW is another one whose desire to be a woman seems at odds with IW's opinion of us.

I'm going out in ten minutes, but will catch up with QT when I get in. If I'm back late I'll pick it up on iPlayer.

Well, India Willoughby is most unlikely to say anything insightful

I know, Rosie. It's all about having our feelings mansplained to us, isn't it?

Going back to the school thing, I don't think it's all malicious. There are, of course, adults who get affirmation from championing the cause of 'underdogs' as it's good for their ego, and makes them feel relevant and 'kind'. When the underdogs are children this can be dangerous.

I also wonder whether calling young children 'students' has made people lose sight of the fact that we are, in many cases, talking about 6 and 7 year olds.

Galaxy

It's good to let things stand then the lurkers can see.

Some of the lurkers agree with me

I'm here for them

I hope someone challenges IW on some of the things they have said about lesbians, they were appalling.

It's good to let things stand then the lurkers can see.

I've done it again . I don't like to annoy people with lots of nested quotes directly below the one being quoted, but others have got in between mine and VSs post of 18.32. That's what my previous post was answering.

I am not disagreeing with any of that.

What I am saying is that sexism, racism and homophobia were/are based on something that is integral to people, and that does not impact on other people. A woman having rights does not take rights from men, other than the right to have someone wait on him whilst he holds the purse strings. Black people having rights does not take rights from white people other than they might have to take their chance at a good seat on the bus. In both cases, the pool of people who might act as competition at work was increased, which is why we still see people bleating about how someone 'played a card' or 'only got the job because of a quota'. Gay people never took rights from straight ones.

Transwomen are asking to take rights from women. The right to privacy and dignity in toilets and changing rooms. The right to compete fairly in sport. The right to safety in prison, hospital, refuges and elsewhere. Even the right to win a bloody award at the Brits.

That is why women are less patient than usual.

(also, are you seriously suggesting that there has always been a large number of people who were 'in the wrong bodies' but didn't mention it until now?)

PS. You are fighting this battle alone on this thread, and I appreciate that it can't be easy. I don't want to come over as patronising, but I do admire you for that, FWIW.

no one is bothered about trans gender people having their own set of rights

a trans debate that doesn't involve listening to actual trans people and their feelings/needs.

Have you not noticed how many times the only "women" invited onto panels discussing these issues are transwomen? Actual women's viewpoints and how aspects affect them isn't even hinted at. So we have men and transwomen discussing issues that are sometimes detrimental to women and children.
I'm hearing celebrity transwoman India Willoughby is to be a panel member on Question Time tonight. I wonder if IW will repeat some of the tweets they're so fond of posting, the ones that say if black women count as women so should transwomen, or if disabled women count as women so should transwomen. And if India is ever criticised it's because "transphobes"

And worse? People are listening and acting and signing and taking no responsibility for their own actions apart from rejoicing what they take and offering nothing back So taking women's words, single sex spaces, sports, awards etc isn't taking and offering nothing back in your world? Children need protecting from undue influence, and immediate eager positive affirmation can certainly be undue influence, encouraging a pathway that makes stepping back less likely. Children like to be admired and celebrated and they seem to especially be if they declare T or NB. It isn't unnoticed that the gender and sexual orientation flags displayed in classrooms etc are highly coloured but the straight one is solid grey. If as a child you are told you can choose your gender and sexuality who is going to go for boring plain grey?

I'm going to let what I've said stand before the message gets any further dirtied

Self reflection is key

Asking me why can't I see that is like asking me why marginalised demographics have suddenly seen a glimps of a world that could accept them in the past

Women

POC

Gay people

We all came out of our closets as individuals and asserted our own needs

There was an upsurge each time where those who kept quiet suddenly found the voice to express themselves

The fight for equality belongs to everyone and none of us have it while any group is marginalised.

Not a single one of us

My views are as follows and are protected by law. You cant change sex, women need sex segregated spaces, children should be treated following NHS guidelines and there should be comprehensive research into what support works. Which of these views would you like me to be accountable for.
Oh you may notice that there is nothing in there about trans people going poof. I am not sure where you have seen that viewpoint. Sigh.

I can't see why affirming something that has exploded in numbers in recent years can be considered positive. Nobody can explain why there are so many children claiming to have been 'born in the wrong body' when such claims were unheard of until recently.

It seems to me that having school staff going along with these claims, and encouraging/coercing other children into going along with them would be a good place to start looking at why this might be the case.

Of course I would never advocate bullying, and of course that applies if the bullying is based on trans issues, but I think that staff should deal with that as bullying, not affirm trans status in children to counter it. If a child genuinely feels that he or she is in the wrong body, refusing to call them River or Sky and change their pronoun won't alter that.

Children should not be segregated or treated differentially because of sex anyway, other than in PE and as regards toilet facilities. IMO these should be sex based, as boys and girls have different bodies. In the case of PE, this could cause physical risk to girls, and in the case of toilets, girls need privacy for periods and boys don't need girls walking past them when they are using urinals.

In all other lessons that I can think of, it doesn't matter whether children are girls or boys. If they are called by their names it will be rare that pronouns are used in their hearing anyway, so why does it matter? What is transphobic about that POV?

Bear in mind that we are talking about children here. There is no question of forcing people into closets with pitchforks. The question is about pushing people out of closets when they were simply considering their options, and are too young to know what they want. Why can't you see that?