Nicola Bulley 45y Old mum of 2 little girls missing from River Wyre area since last Friday morning at 9:15am walking her dog, Willow.

Hence when I found it I said nothing.

www.walesonline.co.uk/news/uk-news/nicola-bulley-search-expert-peter-26251061

He must be feeling upset too that he and his team put in some much effort into trying to find Nicola but their strategy would have changed had they been given more details.

Here it is. Warning it does give information about how people commit suicide, which could be distressing for some.

youtu.be/JkTBvRmVvdk

Thank you FP
Yes, I heard that he’d said similar, but it wasn’t elaborated on.
This is looking like the most horrible mess

FannyCornforth

Fleurpepper

Yes he has.

What did he say?

Can't remember word for word- will publish if I find it again.

Basically that had he known, he would have searched very differently.

The family have just given a statement about the intrusion and public focus.
Some people have been trying to sell stories to the press about Nicola.
So awful

Yes Lizzie. I know from personal experience that you can be gliding serenely across the lake and paddling frantically under the water.

It is a sad fact that although some peoples lives can seem perfect and carefree, they can be going through a living hell inside.

So true Kate1949. I think there’s a lot of pressure today for young people to portray a picture of an idyllic life on social media. But, as we know, real life is not all shiny and beautifully manicured. It appears that this poor young woman may have been going through a very tough time whilst, on the surface, living a perfect life. Perhaps the ‘social media ideal’ makes it harder for people to admit they’re struggling. It’s very sad - I feel for her and her family.

Joseanne My heart goes out to you.

Fleurpepper

Yes he has.

What did he say?

Yes he has.

The police have been forced to defend themselves in the face of so much criticism, and yes, the diver is trying to protect his reputation - though what difference the alcohol problem could have made to his search I have no idea. Has he explained that?

Did we really need to know that the Police has been to their home the week before she disappeared? I don’t see how that fact helps with the search one iota.

It now feels as if the police were between a rock and a hard place. Revealing Nicola's alcohol related issues have added to the family's distress but could have prevented some of the wild speculation. It would also have explained why they were certain no third party was involved.

The Dan Walker interview unintentionally muddied the waters and the head of the private diving team probably now feels that he needs to protect his reputation in terms of expertise.

The truth will out!

The Inquest is the appropriate venue for this information. In my view it should not be in the public domain whilst she is still a missing person.

maddyone

I don’t know why the vulnerabilities that have been claimed Nicola has change the protocol for the search for her. She’s missing and she needs to be found.

My thoughts too maddyone.

This whole media circus upsets me so much to the extent I now swerve reading any articles about the search in my newspapers. Too much prurient speculation. Goodness only knows why the Police made the statement they did. Did we really need to know that the Police has been to their home the week before she disappeared? I don’t see how that fact helps with the search one iota.

Her poor little girls. Half term week nearly over and no mummy with them. Heartbreaking beyond belief.

Joseanne I’m so very sorry for the trauma you suffered in your life. No wonder your posts have been so empathetic and totally understanding what angst those children are going through.
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It’s 3 weeks tomorrow. I hope Nicola is found very soon. Safe if possible that would be wonderful. We can but hope.

At least it makes more sense to those of us that own dogs as to how she might have just left her dog; the dog being the most confusing part of it all. I think that, if the police had said at the beginning that she was regarded as being vulnerable there wouldn’t have been the pressure on them to defend themselves and divulge such personal information.And, in light of those disclosures, I’m confused as to why her husband took part in that tv programme last week. In future there will be a lot of criticism of the police by families whose loved ones go missing but don’t get the coverage that this case has.

Iam64

So sorry to read that Joseanne.

Social media can be a source for good but in this case seems to have unleashed armchair detectives, often demanding information and criticising every move the police make.
fancy that - are you suggesting the police haven’t followed their protocols in this case. They will have more information they haven’t shared

So sorry about that Joseanne. What a nightmare for you. I doubt your concerns were spurious , but I have read so many comments to the effect that “we must find out everything for the sake of those poor children” followed by their own suggestions of what might have happened.
IMO the latest information sharing was unnecessary.

There is something deeply unsettling about this whole situation.

I keep thinking that too GSM and wondering why they haven't found her. It must be awful for her family and friends not knowing.

It is surely extremely unlikely that she is still alive. Her problems would be revealed in full in an inquest, whether the family or the public like it or not.

Goodbyetoallthat

I am deeply uncomfortable about this information being shared & am really not sure what they hope to achieve by releasing it (other than causing more distress to the family).

Yes.

I saw that too.
I wonder what he would have done differently?

I am deeply uncomfortable about this information being shared & am really not sure what they hope to achieve by releasing it (other than causing more distress to the family).

Joseanne

The prime task is to ascertain what happened. No-one's feelings, family or otherwise, and certainly not media-generated 'outrage' should stand in the way. Disclosure of her vulnerabilities may help. An expert searcher has said he would have conducted his search differently had he known.