I didn’t watch the programme Doodle but I am aware that many (is it a third or half?) of all pensioners claim Pension Credit, so that tells us a lot about the situation of older people here in the UK today.
I didn’t have an inheritance in my forties (I think you’ve said you’ve never had an inheritance too) and I received a small inheritance from my parents very recently as my mum died last year, dad died some seven years ago. Mum was in a lovely care home for her last year, and it was very expensive, but I would have rather never inherited a penny than have her anywhere less nice.
We both worked as teachers and we paid our mortgage and independent school fees from the children being eleven years old. We put all three through university, paying upkeep and spending money, along with rent, books, tube fares etc. We were lucky in that two of them attended university before fees were payable. It cost us enough as it was. That we did all this on not huge salaries is why I feel I should not have to pay again after I die. Anyway, from what I’ve learned on this site, I now realise we won’t qualify for paying any inheritance tax and I no longer need to worry myself about it. I won’t deny we are comfortable, we live in our own house, four bedroom detached in the south, but not a huge house nonetheless, and we have some savings, and we have our teacher professional pensions as well as state pensions, and so we can live a nice life. I just don’t want to give anymore to the government.