I don't mean this to sound insensitive, but the more I inherited over the threshold, the more I felt inclined to just pay the flipping tax and get on with life. My mother gifted us a house in London when we married, but as she died soon after, I, the recipient of the gift needed to pay Inheritance Tax on the value of the gift above the nil rate band. I also paid tax on her own property that I later sold. She had worked all her life as a teacher and paid her taxes too, never received a pension, so was clobbered for tax all round if you like. It made me feel disillusioned, but because I was young, I just accepted it and paid.
In my own life, my husband and I have played the property market and taken risks. Sometimes you win, sometimes you lose, but I now feel that anything I own, either by luck or hard work, is mine, mine alone to do what I like with, and I don't see why the government should get any of it.