SeaWoozle
Primrose53
People who had a poor start in life need an “up” to work to not a “down” like many of you are implying. Progress can be made, however slow.
On another thread we were discussing our childhoods and the majority on here came from poor backgrounds, myself included.
Remember, back then there were no benefits or handouts so you HAD to work out ways to feed your families or the kids would end up in care. I lived in a road with families of 8, 10 and even 12 kids and they were poorer than us. GSM tells how she had to raise a child as a single parent but it sounds like she has done OK for herself. I was lucky enough to be married but by the time we paid bills, clothed the kids and paid for fuel to get to work in an old banger there was nothing left over. I really had to budget hard but I did it!
If people go round telling folk they shouldn’t bother making soup and why bother buying a slow cooker or a little ring to cook on when you can spend that money on unnecessary rubbish then you discourage them from trying to improve things. It is so negative.
Once again, you're twisting people's words.
Nobody is suggesting ANY of the above. Nobody is suggesting folk should just live off benefits and scr3w the state for what they can get.
I struggle to comprehend, as I always have, why ANYONE would want the people of today to "just get on with things" the way people did in the "old days'. My dad still tells the story of how he was a "War Baby" and didn't have a banana until he was five. Do you seriously want that for your grandchildren?! Outside toilets - those too maybe? And how about a touch of polio into the mix?
Yes, life was harder back then, there wasn't the support that there is now and things were tough. But WHY would you want people to struggle the same now, because that's what's implied?!
Things have progressed, allegedly improved and life has apparently become easier.
I was pretty much a single parent to 2 kids, it wasn't always easy & support was minimal (along with other issues which are nobody's business but mine) but would I want that for my kids now to "teach them a lesson" or show them "how it used to be"? Of course not.
It isn't about making soup, nor buying cheap vegetables, it's about one's capacity to follow a process from start to finish and, most of all, be able to finance it.
Not twisting anybody’s words and I definitely don’t want to go back to the old days but people do have to put some effort in and try to help themselves rather than relying totally on handouts. I well remember being the first in the Post Office queue on a Monday morning to collect my family allowance because all our money was gone after Sunday tea.
There is now more information readily available on budgeting and eating healthily than ever before. Books, pamphlets, magazines, TV and You Tube wall to wall programmes, free recipe cards in supermarkets, free courses if people look.