Oreo
Casdon
We all have different opinions, and as long as everybody understands the trade offs, okay. In my eyes a society where one partner is entitled to stay at home if the other earns a lot of money, but not otherwise, stinks.
That’s a very curious view I must say.
Women who don’t have to work i.e their partner/ husband earns enough to keep them, have that choice.Women who have a partner/ husband who earns enough to keep them both but want to work, that’s their choice too.If earning a lot they pay more taxes.
Women who have to work i.e me, also pay tax, tho a low-ish amount.
You can’t tax women ( or men) who don’t earn anything themselves.
That’s a very curious view I must say.
It is a bit.
If one individual earns a lot of money, he or she will also pay a lot of tax on it.
His or her net income is then 'available' to be spent (after bills are paid) in whatever way the earner chooses.
If he or she decides to spend their income on 'keeping' their spouse or partner, that is their choice.
... unless we are going to start making laws about what an individual is allowed to spend their income on? Which would be unthinkable IMO.
It may not seem very 'fair' - but the answer is not to attempt to somehow 'ban' it, but to make sure that everyone has a decent income for the work they do so they can also have a fair crack at the whip.
Also, a couple may decide to cut their budget, to live frugally, on one income, so that one partner can remain in the home - for whatever reason, which is no one else's business anyway. Is that wrong? Should they not be allowed to do that?
And can I just say that - without reference to any facts or statistics (I don't have the time) - is it not the case that, barring obviously some exceptions, the majority of women do at some point in their lives, work outside the home? During which time they will pay taxes and national insurance. Considering that it is largely women doing the grunt work of raising children and keeping the home ticking over so that the 'breadwinner' functions, the children are properly cared for and can become well-rounded, stable, future workers and tax-payers, all without recourse on the State... is that not enough?
As a single-parent working full-time, I can truthfully say I never begrudged those women who were in a position to stay at home. I occasionally envied them, but not in any malicious way. I was just determined to make the most of any opportunities that came my way, and work my way up the ladder so that life would become more comfortable.
However, I did have a good, well-paying job which was secure (though it was nothing special, just a common or garden secretarial one). I also had reasonably priced rented accommodation with a secure tenancy agreement, and a child-minder whose charges I could afford out of my one wage packet. And transport costs were also relatively reasonable, too.
... and that is what the problem is now. Well paid secure jobs are difficult to find, rented accommodation is hugely expensive, child-care costs are sometimes unaffordable, and travel is enormously expensive. And that is what needs addressing rather than debating whether it's right or wrong for one partner to pay for the upkeep of another.