GrannyGravy13
Glorianny you are wrong in this instance.
There were so many interactions between the independent schools, local schools and community, too many to mention.
Not in every area, we have one proper prep school and several primary independent schools (3-11 or 3-13 and in one case 4-16)
They very much interact with EACH other. Have sporting competitions between Independent Schools, and often the bursaries and scholarships are partial not full.
I am well aware of the many differences between the quality and education in these local Independent schools and state primaries in the same area.
My eldest child attended the prep school, with a partial scholarship based on ability. He went there, between 3-11, then onto our local (state) Grammar School.
My three younger children all attended a local, large primary school (4 class entry, Approx 750 pupils), then all went onto a state selective comprehensive.
So I have personal experience, particularly at Primary level. Fundamentally, the classes were very small, 10-12 pupils in a class, as opposed to 30 in the state primary, many more opportunities for extra curriculum activities, better and far more expensive school trips. Less behavioural issues due to much smaller classes and termly exams in every subject and competition very much encouraged.
My son was happy and safe there.
Our other children were happy and safe in their state junior school. I became a school governor to understand the school and education system and found the teaching staff, on the whole, to be very hard working, competent and caring.
I never felt my younger children received a “second-best” education despite the many differences.
My first child was from a different father and almost 13 years older than my next child, so no resentment.