We were working parents. I worked part time and my husband was a top engineer in his field. But no matter how much we scrimped and saved we would not have had enough money to privately educate our children.
It's interesting to hear other posters' experiences with their own children, probably 1980s time, and yes, you're right Maybee70, that private schooling was way out of the reach of many in those days. The current profile of the type of parent paying fees, 40 years on, is different in many ways. You still have the very very rich, and those in the usual private school professions, but you also have a new generation of parents in well paid, but also less secure jobs. I know from the school I taught at in London that we had many parents working in design, computing, finance and media. They were not exactly scrimping, but they were right on the edge of being able to afford the fees. We also had fewer parents who were paying their fees from an inheritance, (because grandma and grandparents are now living longer and often spending their money on themselves or helping with property purchases). Infact, the majority of parents paying are doing so monthly by direct debit straight from their own bank accounts. So these are the ones who will struggle with the increase in school fees, not the very wealthy.
To my mind, it all seems a bit insensitive towards those hardworking people.