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You make a good argument there @ Doodledog, I concede that.
However, in their final house no owner gives a monkey's whether the improvements they make will be compensated by a rise in value of the house. You're not going to need it to up-size or to move, because you're dead. Likewise your beneficiaries are unlikely to give a monkey's as to how much they inherit either. You're absolutely correct in saying that tax is about numbers, not about emotions. BUT, and it's a big BUT, when your parents die, it's bad enough dealing with the overwhelming grief, (at any age), without the added of trauma of handing over a wodge of money of your loved ones' money to the government. That is why it is such an unpopular tax. That is why only a small minority are in favour. And from my perspective, that is why I object to people calling others "money grabbing, greedy, uncaring, smug", and any other words they choose to find, when they have never been in that situation. It's spiteful and smacks of envy.
Well you won’t have seen that language from me. I said that on a board where many people are struggling with the withdrawal of the WFP, complaining about the government coming for ‘a pittance’ when there is an allowance of a million pounds was crass. I think that is true. The poster acknowledged that she used the wrong word, and I understand that that is easy to do, and accepted the withdrawal. I was criticising the comment not the poster anyway. I don’t call people names, even when I am called them myself.
I don’t discuss my own circumstances much as they don’t influence my opinions beyond the inevitable. Things are either fair or they’re not. I try very hard to keep emotions out of things, and much as I respect the grief of the bereaved I don’t think that invoking that is fair. We all pay tax throughout our lives and there are no rebates in difficult times.
I mentioned home improvements simply because others are saying that they paid high interest rates, have improved their homes etc, and coming up with all sorts of mitigations, suggesting that they’ve paid almost as much as their house is worth because of them. This is why I rarely talk about my own circumstances on threads like these
. I suppose I was trying to show that I am not far removed from the issues, but lesson learnt. Anyway my point is that these things are irrelevant, whether done by me or anyone else. I thought that was clear.
Finally the notion of the ‘politics of envy’ is facile. It is an attempt to silence anyone who suggests that laws should apply to people better off than them (wherever that bar is set). It makes huge assumptions- both about the circumstances and the psychology of those being called envious, usually based on nothing at all.