There is nothing wrong with spending your own money. I really dislike the notion of deprivation of assets, where a third party decides whether you ‘needed’ to buy whatever you wanted towards the end of your life, but allows free spending in earlier years. I know that doesn’t apply to IHT - I am talking about the principle.
I do approve of the seven year gifting rule, as seven years is a lot of leeway when it comes to reasonably predicting one’s likely demise; and it makes no sense to encourage deathbed scenes with a priest on one side of the bed and a lawyer on the other disposing of the estate before the taxman can get his hands on it.
Spending always has knock-on effects. There is VAT on most things, and profits to the producers, suppliers and retailers of purchases, which are again taxed. I think people lose sight of the fact that if we all just hoard our money and avoid taxation as per the title of this thread then there will be no goods, services employment or civilisation. Those things depend on there being a cycle of taxation, with every pound being taxed over and over again. That’s not unfair - it’s how capitalism works.
What is unfair is when those with unearned money cling on to it, and those without are taxed on every penny they work for. Spend away - it’s hoarding and squirrelling that is bad for society - which is why we have inheritance tax in the first place.
I think someone got out of the wrong side of the bed


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