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How could we have let Sara down so badly?

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petal53 Wed 11-Dec-24 16:48:49

I heard on the news this afternoon, and read in the DM about the guilty verdicts in the case of the little girl, Sara Sharif. Reading the details about her treatment, right from birth, brought tears to my eyes. The police, her school, Social Services, and the judiciary all let this child down so badly, it’s scarcely believable. I speak as an ex teacher. This child was at risk from day one, and spent several years in foster care. The school failed to report more than once. Social Services were involved throughout her ten years of life, but frequently failed her during those years. I haven’t got words for the Family Court judge who placed her back with her abusive father. They all knew he was violent and abusive towards women and children, and yet she was placed in his care and left in his care.

We’re all currently appalled at what has been happening in Syria’s prisons, and yet this child was subjected to sickening abuse here in England. The same kind of abuse those prisoners were subjected to. Beaton with a metal pole and a cricket bat, plastic bags tied around her face, bitten, burnt with a hot iron. It’s absolutely heartbreaking. Her father and step mother are guilty, and her uncle guilty of allowing it to happen, but a lot of other people are guilty too. Guilty of failing this beautiful child. I hope they’re all ashamed of the part they played in the events that caused her suffering and eventually her death.

petra Thu 12-Dec-24 22:01:44

NightOwl
That name brings back awful memories.
Also it was the time when my sister and two close friends were starting out in their careers as SW.
I remember having the most awful row with one of those friends over the Maria Cauldwell case.
For my shame I just wanted someone to blame 😥

HousePlantQueen Thu 12-Dec-24 22:10:57

Anniebach

I don’t understand why naming social workers would put them at risk, surely families they visit know the names. I am not saying they should be named , just don’t understand why risks

Have you never seen the witch hunts carried out by the press?

Allira Thu 12-Dec-24 22:16:04

Sara was an at risk child, known to Social Services from when she was born.

Such a child should never have been allowed to be 'home-schooled'.

MissAdventure Thu 12-Dec-24 22:19:17

Are social services not even involved when such decisions are made about an at risk child??

eazybee Thu 12-Dec-24 22:19:35

I believe some social workers use different names in their professional lives because they are subject to threats from disgruntled clients, who are able to find out who they are and where they live.

Anniebach Thu 12-Dec-24 22:28:28

Quote HousePlantQueen Thu 12-Dec-24 22:10:57
Anniebach
I don’t understand why naming social workers would put them at risk, surely families they visit know the names. I am not saying they should be named , just don’t understand why risks
Have you never seen the witch hunts carried out by the press?

Even the press wouldn’t name a social workers, school teacher,
police officer when there has been no enquiry, no one found at
fault

Kate1949 Thu 12-Dec-24 22:46:07

What did those morons think would happen? That they could relentlessly beat her little body and she wouldn't die? That they would get away with it?

MissAdventure Thu 12-Dec-24 22:51:16

I can't even begin to fathom out what these people think, when they try all the tricks to ensure the child is kept with them.

They must be true psychopaths.

Kate1949 Thu 12-Dec-24 22:53:43

I don't know. I despair.

MissAdventure Thu 12-Dec-24 22:56:45

Me too.
I can't put these cases out of my head, that's why I have to try and avoid reading the details.

Allira Thu 12-Dec-24 23:01:58

They must be true psychopaths.
That would give them a get-out clause.

They are just pure evil.

nightowl Thu 12-Dec-24 23:05:18

Anniebach the Sun published names of social workers involved in the case of Peter Connelly and launched a petition for their sacking. They were besieged by journalists outside their homes and lived in fear. The Sun was later ordered to issue a public apology and pay damages. Rebekah Brooks, who had led the campaign, later admitted it had perhaps been ‘too harsh’ - a bit late.

Kate1949 Thu 12-Dec-24 23:08:26

Nor me MissA. Unfortunately I did read about Sara. I'm not sure why. Maybe because I think we owe it to these children? I don't know.

Anniebach Thu 12-Dec-24 23:08:54

The Sun only had to apologise ? Had there been an enquiry?

MissAdventure Thu 12-Dec-24 23:13:15

The sun also highlighted the huge bonus paid to Sharon Shoesmith, or perhaps it was her retirement pension.

MissAdventure Thu 12-Dec-24 23:16:06

Kate1949

Nor me MissA. Unfortunately I did read about Sara. I'm not sure why. Maybe because I think we owe it to these children? I don't know.

Yes, no doubt the poor souls are owed something from a society that "let this happen", however uncomfortable it might be to hear about.

Anniebach Thu 12-Dec-24 23:17:34

The social workers in the Baby P murder case had been sacked ?

nightowl Thu 12-Dec-24 23:20:03

I have a different view of Sharon Shoesmith MissAdventure but this is probably not the forum to go into that. She lost her job, her income and her reputation so in my opinion she paid a high price.

MissAdventure Thu 12-Dec-24 23:20:19

The doctor that didn't physically examine baby Peter because he was "fussing" or something.
His back was broken, I think, by that point.

MissAdventure Thu 12-Dec-24 23:21:41

nightowl

I have a different view of Sharon Shoesmith MissAdventure but this is probably not the forum to go into that. She lost her job, her income and her reputation so in my opinion she paid a high price.

Not as high as baby Peter paid.

She never even apologised.9

nightowl Thu 12-Dec-24 23:22:33

Anniebach the campaign was at the very start, before they were sacked. That was the point of the campaign.

nightowl Thu 12-Dec-24 23:26:47

MissAdventure what did she actually do? Of course it was Peter who paid the ultimate price, but what should have happened to Sharon Shoesmith?

MissAdventure Thu 12-Dec-24 23:29:16

Why shouldn't people who have failed so catastrophically be sacked?

It's not the kind of job where money was lost, or food was spoiled.

A little child endured horrific abuse, and died alone, in a blood spattered cot, with teeth in his stomach because they'd been knocked down his throat, the tips of his fingers cut off, and a whole life of misery beforehand.

MissAdventure Thu 12-Dec-24 23:32:57

Perhaps she shouldn't have been given a huge payout.
That sounds fair to me, since as you say, she wasn't personally involved in the abuse, or actively covering it up.

Anniebach Thu 12-Dec-24 23:42:12

A newspaper should be sued, what troubles me on this thread
i# the need to defend social workers, to criticise social workers,
I think this feeds a need to lay blame , police officers next ?
an innocent suffered horrific fear of her parents, death, the murderers have been found guilty. ,