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What is it with men? Some men, perhaps, but TOO MANY

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RosiesMaw2 Mon 27-Jan-25 23:16:58

Wynne Evans has stepped away from his BBC radio programme after making an “inappropriate and unacceptable” remark towards a Strictly Come Dancing presenter
Evans, the opera singer and star of the Go Compare adverts, was caught on camera appearing to use the term “spit roast” in reference to Janette Manrara, who is hosting the Strictly live tour.
The incident happened during a photocall for the tour in Birmingham, as Ms Manrara stood between Evans and Jamie Borthwick, another Strictly contestant. Borthwick did not take part in the exchange
I am proud to say it would not have occurred to DH or indeed any men in my family to use that sort of language.
D1 and GD (10) went to the Strictly Live show 10 days ago, with friends, also with a 10 year old daughter.
GD loved it but if she had caught any of the interview what on earth could we have said to her?

Lydie45 Thu 06-Feb-25 16:10:48

I’ve just had to look it up and must admit I found it revolting, why would a man risk his career, he must know it’s a horrible thing to say.

Ilovedogs22 Sun 02-Feb-25 09:07:04

crazyH

Never liked the man - has a leery look about him

🤣 your comment make me Spit-out my Porridge crazyH

GrammarGrandma Sun 02-Feb-25 08:24:25

I will be 80 in April and am perfectly aware of this term and its meaning. I doubt my husband is. But if he were, he would never use it. No decent man would.

Iam64 Fri 31-Jan-25 18:06:03

Sarnia yes, in my post yesterday afternoon I updated us on the bishop’s resignation

Sarnia Fri 31-Jan-25 17:07:43

Keeping the pot boiling is the Bishop of Liverpool who has resigned after misconduct allegations were made against him, one accuser being a female priest.

Iam64 Thu 30-Jan-25 19:43:01

Oh I’d forgotten that cracker, the talk of the wash house.
I remember early Coronation Street, which mum tried to stop us watching. She thought it was ‘common’ a very serious thing in her world view. She also worried that those in the south would think were all like that awful Elsie Tanner.
My two sisters and I still revert to ‘and think on Martha Longhurst” in the true Ena Sharples manner

Chocolatelovinggran Thu 30-Jan-25 18:55:29

We still go to the foot of our stairs in my house, Iam, and unsuitable behaviours are considered likely to be " the talk of the wash-house ".

nightowl Thu 30-Jan-25 17:30:01

Yes Iam, for me it was a response to ‘well I thought….’ grin

Wonderful memories and people Iam, like you I think of them more and more.

Iam64 Thu 30-Jan-25 16:40:22

night owl / exactly on the response if we said ‘I think’ - you know what think did followed a muck cart and thought it were a wedding
So, we learned to “think on”

We had Yorkshire relatives / miners with mill work this side of the penines

The older I get the more I value those kind, hard working and it must be said, doting grandparents. One would buy our Easter rocks, the other shoes. Same with school uniforms. I confess to being a doting grannie following their example

nightowl Thu 30-Jan-25 16:29:20

My mum used that expression too Iam, born and bred in Yorkshire.

Another one was ‘you know what thought did - followed a muck cart and thought it were a wedding’.

Iam64 Thu 30-Jan-25 16:21:54

My grannie wasn’t born in Bury but in Coventry. Aged about 11-12 she was put into service in the big house. She hated it and along with her younger sister got to Bury where an uncle put them up and got them work in the cotton mill.
She became a Bury lass. Another favourite was “well, I’ll go to the foot of our stairs”
My other gran was Manchester born but married and lived in Bury. Another mill worker and with the same great phrases

Galaxy Thu 30-Jan-25 15:54:55

'They must think we fell of a flitting' - where does that originate Iam64 - I like it!

Allira Thu 30-Jan-25 15:44:01

JamesandJon33

Not a very good opera singer though !

Really?
He's been in a lot of productions with Welsh National Opera, at the Royal Opera House, several others, BBC Proms etc.

You may not like his latest behaviour and I do not condone it in the slightest but I think that there's no need to start disparaging his career or being nasty about his looks, as one poster (not you) was.

I'm not defending his behaviour in the slightest.
As I said, what a stupid thing to do.

Unless he has Tourette Syndrome and can't help himself but therd seems to be no evidence of thst.

MayBee70 Thu 30-Jan-25 15:41:01

Boz

Caitlin Moran in The Times to-day.

There is a certain kind of man who never realises how lucky they are. They think “acting professionally” is for boring nobodies; they ignore disciplinary procedures; and they will not learn. In the end every industry is a game of statistics. Thus far, after 97 years of terrestrial television, we are yet to have a single scandal about a female presenter acting inappropriately.

I kinda agree

We’re going to stop subscribing to The Times, but I’m really going to miss Caitlin’s articles and comments. I’ve followed her ever since she wrote for The Observer.

Iam64 Thu 30-Jan-25 15:35:33

I see the bishop of Liverpool has “retired to ensure he doesn’t become a distraction”. He’s denying any inappropriate behaviour

As my grannie might have said “they must think we fell off a flitting”.

Boz Thu 30-Jan-25 15:31:31

Caitlin Moran in The Times to-day.

There is a certain kind of man who never realises how lucky they are. They think “acting professionally” is for boring nobodies; they ignore disciplinary procedures; and they will not learn. In the end every industry is a game of statistics. Thus far, after 97 years of terrestrial television, we are yet to have a single scandal about a female presenter acting inappropriately.

I kinda agree

Iam64 Thu 30-Jan-25 15:13:22

Galaxy - I’m with you on pornography, so called ‘sex work’ etc
I also agree that some men who see themselves as what I still see as trendy or right on, are so often casually misogynistic. My first understanding of woke related to its use by black people in their own support
It’s like PC - a ridiculous phrase aimed at shutting down debate I fear

Ilovedogs22 Thu 30-Jan-25 14:29:41

Iam64

Unless MountainAsh considers the criticism of him woke nonsense

I would advise that MountainAsh doesn't search for 'Spit Roast' on the computer!!!
It's not for the faint of heart & it's certainly not a nice family recipe! 🥴

Galaxy Thu 30-Jan-25 14:23:05

As I have mentioned before many dont see woke as progressive. Online 'woke' men tend to be very aggressive. They generally get very cross about any criticism of porn.

Wyllow3 Thu 30-Jan-25 14:05:09

Its the opposite!

NannyC1 Thu 30-Jan-25 13:59:33

Mountain Ash do you actually know what Woke means. I doubt it very much. Definition Progressive or left-wing attitudes or practices, esp. those opposing social injustice or discrimination. So let us all be Woke.
"Spit roasting" is when 2 men have sex with a woman at the same time!
How is that anything to do with being Woke!

JamesandJon33 Thu 30-Jan-25 13:51:06

Not a very good opera singer though !

Allira Thu 30-Jan-25 13:01:04

He's not just the Go Compare bloke although that advert made more people aware of him. He's an opera singer, had a radio show then became more well known through Strictly. Now notorious.

He's let himself down. Stupid man.

LauraNorderr Thu 30-Jan-25 12:59:40

Nothing to do with woke, banter, mental health, grief or any other lame excuse.
Just plain old disgusting, disrespectful, unacceptable behaviour.
Time he and others of the same ilk disappeared from public life.

Iam64 Thu 30-Jan-25 12:38:05

Unless MountainAsh considers the criticism of him woke nonsense