Mollygo
^Exactly! It's the act which is irregular, not the people themselves.^
Like being told to say, “That was a naughty thing to do,” instead of “you’re a naughty boy.”
The boy was still in the wrong for doing the naughty thing.
I do hope you're not a parent or at least that your children have grown up and survived your parenting.
What would you expect to achieve by constantly telling a child they were naughty? My guess would be a naughty child. That level of disrespect and lack of compassion and understanding is very likely to backfire. You have put them in a box marked "naughty child".
A child labelled "naughty" has no reason to behave otherwise. It's like telling a child constantly they are "bad" at something. The most likely outcome is you will be proved right but that is no fault of the child.
