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The Women's Institute is to revert to being an Institute for Women

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Doodledog Wed 03-Dec-25 13:45:21

www.thewi.org.uk/media-centre/press-releases

It appears that the WI, along with Guiding, has finally accepted that the law applies to them as well as to the rest of us.

I am not a WI member, so much of what I know is from reading things like the thread on MN where a member's husband was refused membership as he doesn't 'live as a woman'. He took them to court, as they did allow transwomen to be members, so it was his lifestyle, not his sex that precluded his membership. Nobody can define what 'living as a woman' means, lifestyle is not a protected characteristic, and sex is legally based on biology, so it appears that he has won his case - I don't see how he could have lost, really.

Both the WI and Guiding express deep sorrow and regret at their decisions and are clearly 'giving in' grudgingly, but AFAIK neither asked their membership's opinions on things like having boys in tents with girls, or men at meetings supposedly for women, and from which men who don't claim to 'live as women' are excluded - the policies were imposed, not voted in.

I assume it's obvious that I approve of the policy reversals. At one time I would have argued that a very occasional man who had transitioned should be allowed in the WI, (although I would probably not have approved on teenage boys being in the GG), but since the recent forcing of the TRA agenda onto policies of various types my desire to protect women and girls has trumped a wish for everyone to live and let live.

It was apparently discussed on Women's Hour this morning, but I have been out all day, and missed it. Did anyone hear it, please, and if so, was anything discussed that contradicts my take on it all (ie that a women's and girls' groups should be for women and girls)?

Galaxy Sun 14-Dec-25 08:26:22

So because women are occasionally challenged ( and that happened 30 or so years ago to my friend who is a butch lesbian, it is nothing new)men should be allowed
in female spaces, the answer is no. As soon as my friend spoke, people realised their mistake. Generally, we are very good at noticing someones sex.
We don't consent, and ignoring wonens consent is about as dangerous as it gets.

Nanananabatman Sun 14-Dec-25 08:19:34

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Doodledog Sun 14-Dec-25 08:10:21

Ok, so your male-looking ex could attack you in a women’s space, so you think all men should be allowed to access such spaces? I’m not following your logic at all.

Galaxy Sun 14-Dec-25 08:04:48

No it hasn't. It has been clarified. Organisations interpreted the law in many ways.
As I say transmen ( women) were frequently housed in female prisons.

Doodledog Sun 14-Dec-25 08:04:22

Nanananabatman

My other concern is that I have a friend who was born a woman who dresses feminine and has a deep voice and is on the tall side who has been accused of being trans and has been made to feel unsafe having abuse shouted at her on the street. All women are now at risk of being cast out of women’s spaces if they don’t align with how someone (probably a male security guard) thinks women should look and that concerns me more than sharing a space with trans women.

Seriously? A female who dresses in a feminine manner has had abuse shouted at her for being ‘on the tall side’?

Is there more to the story, as it seems likely that very many women would be abused in that case, and I haven’t heard of a single one? A very tall woman with cropped hair and a beard who dresses in a suit and hangs around the Ladies in a rough nightclub might attract attention, but a woman in women’s clothing in the street? Where do you live where that goes on?

Also, whilst you have every right to your opinion, the fact that you are more concerned about all women being at risk of being cast out of women’s spaces than about men being in them is neither here nor there. The law states that sex equals birth sex (ie nothing to do with ‘gender’).

Where do you go that has male security guards in the Ladies? And why do you think women’s spaces exist in the first place? What’s the point of having them if they are open to men?

Nanananabatman Sun 14-Dec-25 07:55:54

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Galaxy Sun 14-Dec-25 07:43:19

There has also been no change in the law, this is the law that always existed, the supreme court clarified the situation.
Transmen ( women) were not excluded from female spaces ( for example due to safety reasons they were often housed in the female prison estate).

Galaxy Sun 14-Dec-25 07:32:51

How you identify has absolutely nothing to do with your sex. It has been a terribly cruel thing to do to pretend to people that that is the case.

Nanananabatman Sun 14-Dec-25 07:29:08

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Nanananabatman Sun 14-Dec-25 07:22:18

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Rosie51 Sun 14-Dec-25 00:41:40

The other point is transmen retain their female socialisation for the most part and therefore don't tend to make aggressive inroads into traditionally female areas. It's always so obvious when TRAs come onto threads and mention transmen, when the usual very vocal chant is transwomen are women. It's almost like transmen are a very useful tool for rebuttal purposes only 🤷 🙄🙄

Mollygo Sat 13-Dec-25 23:46:13

Nanananabatman

So your ex is female, regardless of bits chopped off, drugs, a hairy face and a piece of paper.

The trans who have caused the problems for women, by cheating in sports, intimidating, threatening, demanding that females give up their rights are male.

Would you claim that your female ex has acquired all the unacceptable attributes of those male trans?

Doodledog Sat 13-Dec-25 23:38:42

Have you missed the news that sex is now legally defined as the sex you are at birth? A transwoman is male (so not allowed to join the WI).

And I very much doubt that anyone has ‘forgotten’ about transmen. It’s just that as women we are more concerned about men invading our spaces. If men are interested in banning transmen from their spaces they can deal with that themselves.

Nanananabatman Sat 13-Dec-25 23:16:40

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Nanananabatman Sat 13-Dec-25 22:45:13

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Nanananabatman Sat 13-Dec-25 22:42:43

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NanKate Sat 13-Dec-25 20:17:52

Absolutely Oreo 🤪

Oreo Sat 13-Dec-25 18:49:27

NanKate

*Sarnia*I too am a member of the WI. I totally agree that the ‘mealy`’ mouthed apology from NFWI was totally pathetic. I have had a number of emails from people in my WI thanking me for speaking up about my concern of the WI accepting biological men in our Institute without a vote from members.

They keep insisting that transwomen are women when
they are patently not. They say they only received 20 letters of complaint but they avoid saying how many emails they got on the subject, at least 6 from me !

The WI top brass seem to have gone down the same silly route as the National Trust.

Lathyrus3 Sat 13-Dec-25 13:44:23

Sometimes the wandering off is interesting and you can see why it’s gone off at a tangent.

I just couldn’t see any relevance in that though.

Mollygo Sat 13-Dec-25 11:33:22

Lathyrus3

I don’t understand what the post about police has to do with with the topic of trans in the WI?

It’s a non sequitur.

🤔🙄

You’re right, but so many things on GN are non sequiturs. Depending on your POV it’s irritating or it adds to the discussion, debate etc.

Galaxy Sat 13-Dec-25 10:12:07

It is look at those men over there, they aren't the same as these men over here. When of course they are exactly the same.
I mean goodness knows where trans policemen fit into this complex categorising of special men.

Lathyrus3 Sat 13-Dec-25 10:04:10

I don’t understand what the post about police has to do with with the topic of trans in the WI?

It’s a non sequitur.

🤔🙄

Galaxy Sat 13-Dec-25 07:54:28

Tw are men many are heterosexual. Oh and those violent policemen you talk about re not welcome in women's spaces either.
Creating a 'special category' of men is a safeguarding failure.
Oh and women who were brave enough to talk about this stopped listening to people calling us names about a decade ago now and carried on highlighting the safeguarding of women and children.

Mollygo Sat 13-Dec-25 03:39:57

Given many of the comments on here, I can see why my Mum did not enjoy attending the WI. I say again, the people that women need to be most afraid of is heterosexual men, not transgender women.

I agree that the information about the police is appalling.
Re the heterosexual men:
TW are men.
When they force their attentions on women, attack or intimidate women or cheat women out of jobs or awards, they are no better than the police you mentioned.

Eloethan Sat 13-Dec-25 00:02:05

Rosie51 There have been several reports relating to the sexist and racist views of a significant number of police officers. There are two high profile cases, one involving rape and murder and the other involving multiple rapes and coercive/violent behaviour.

In a recent documentary a police sergeant was filmed using the most disgusting, offensive terms about women and was joking about the most intimate details of his encounter with a woman when he was off duty. It was an appalling way to speak in front of junior officers - in fact appalling to think and speak in such a way full stop. He has recently been sacked but that is only because his words were secretly filmed - he'd been in the post for years, setting such a vile example to co-workers.

Of course, that isn't to say that every police officer is like that - but, given the numbers that have been suspended and are being investigated, I think it is reasonable to say that I expect more of people who are supposed to uphold the law and who have such power over people.

Given many of the comments on here, I can see why my Mum did not enjoy attending the WI. I say again, the people that women need to be most afraid of is heterosexual men, not transgender women.