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Cossy Sun 19-Jul-26 18:07:09

This lady was asleep in her bed, with her husband and with her young baby, in their own home.

“A man has been charged with murder after a woman was fatally stabbed in Hayes, west London.

The Metropolitan Police said officers were called just before 08:00 BST to a property on Uxbridge Road on Sunday where they found Kirandeep Kaur with stab wounds.

Despite efforts of emergency services, the 24-year-old was pronounced dead at the scene.

A man in his 20s was found outside the property, also with stab injuries. He remains in hospital and his condition is not considered to be life threatening.

Daniel Sean James, 44, of Mercer Place, Pinner, was also charged on Monday with attempted murder and possession of a bladed article. He is due to appear at Willesden Magistrates' Court on Tuesday”

Someone on Facebook has asked “where is the cold dark rage”

He’s not advocating violence, but he’s questioning why this doesn’t meet the narrative of being outraged.

What is happening in our country and in our world?

Tuliptree Mon 20-Jul-26 12:16:12

GrannyGravy13

I posted upthread that there are approximately 500-600murders per year in the U.K.

Taking the upper limit that is 1.64 per day.

Maybe we should have a separate Murder board on GN for those who wish to comment and publicise them all…

Pretty shabby comment

GrannyGravy13 Mon 20-Jul-26 12:09:13

I posted upthread that there are approximately 500-600murders per year in the U.K.

Taking the upper limit that is 1.64 per day.

Maybe we should have a separate Murder board on GN for those who wish to comment and publicise them all…

Tuliptree Mon 20-Jul-26 11:48:11

Oreo

And I don’t think that any poster on here should continue to fan the flames.

As if any posters on GN would ever do that 😂😂😂

Galaxy Mon 20-Jul-26 11:35:53

I think identity politics are very invidious.

Oreo Mon 20-Jul-26 11:30:01

And I don’t think that any poster on here should continue to fan the flames.

Oreo Mon 20-Jul-26 11:28:22

I would say that all GN members that I have seen ‘seek peace between cultures’ .

Wyllow3 Mon 20-Jul-26 11:24:56

Well, sadly, I'd say very divided camps, Oreo.

There have always been fears (ie, enoch Powell et al - indeed - going back to the days of Empire) of those with different ethnicities. Myths created around cultures that were "not ours".

These fears and myths, always present for some, have had the flames fanned by the Right of recent times, in the way I describe above.

Twisting it "the other way round" and blaming those who seek peace between cultures, to me is very invidious.

Tuliptree Mon 20-Jul-26 11:22:13

Oreo

You believe what you like Wyllow3 as will everybody else.

Awww thanks for giving us all the permission.

Oreo Mon 20-Jul-26 11:17:45

You believe what you like Wyllow3 as will everybody else.

Wyllow3 Mon 20-Jul-26 11:13:53

Tuliptree

Oreo

…and it’s sowing division and upset to continually bring race into absolutely everything.

Into everything? Slight exaggeration there. Believing it’s never relevant would be pretty silly as well

Absolutely on the contrary, Oreo.

It is my strong belief that the constant barrage of racism and near racism, fostered particularly by the right, who often do not seem to see home grown crimes as significant as those done by a diverse population:

Who trumpet every crime done by non whites on from pages of popular newspapers and GB news and little said when it is white people:

Have created this atmosphere in the first place.

This thread is attempting to address those issues through a particular and very sad example:

Yes, its important to record ethnicity because it is sometimes helpful and often needful when social planning, police and judiciary matters are considered, in order to get the balance right:

But to then turn and blame those who have to call out racism at work

That just does not work for me.

Tuliptree Mon 20-Jul-26 11:11:50

Oreo

All cases are very different.The sisters in the nature reserve were grown adults know to have been attending a late gathering there, so police wouldn’t have given that priority.
The photo taking was awful and goes against all police rules.

The bodies were found 36 hours after the murder. During all that time, the police refused to define them as missing persons. The Met eventually apologised for that failing

Oreo Mon 20-Jul-26 11:08:58

It’s the nature of SM to be outraged about everything and to accuse others of not being as saintly/ compassionate as themselves when they know sod all about either other posters or the general public.
We shouldn’t fall into the trap of believing them.
Most people, regardless of race or religion or anything else regard intruder in the home murder as terrible and even worse than murder anywhere else.It’s the one place that we feel safe in.

Oreo Mon 20-Jul-26 11:01:43

All cases are very different.The sisters in the nature reserve were grown adults know to have been attending a late gathering there, so police wouldn’t have given that priority.
The photo taking was awful and goes against all police rules.

Tuliptree Mon 20-Jul-26 10:57:17

Oreo

…and it’s sowing division and upset to continually bring race into absolutely everything.

Into everything? Slight exaggeration there. Believing it’s never relevant would be pretty silly as well

Tuliptree Mon 20-Jul-26 10:55:29

I know the Glasgow case had nothing to do with race. I think it’s pretty obvious why I was quoting this example. As for the school deaths, I was quoting one of the fathers who believes that race influenced the behaviour of the police investigating the incident. It wouldn’t be the first time would it? Remember the two black sisters murdered in a London park and how the family found their bodies when the police had refused to search? And the photographs?

Oreo Mon 20-Jul-26 10:52:23

…and it’s sowing division and upset to continually bring race into absolutely everything.

Oreo Mon 20-Jul-26 10:50:24

Tuliptree

Oreo - now she is finally going to court, we will hopefully find out the truth. There must be more than a ‘medical blackout’ to the story. I have memories of a bin lorry driver in Glasgow. blacking out and people dying, turned out he’d been told not to drive by his doctor. So who knows?

That had nothing to do with race, and neither was the sad case of the school deaths.

Tuliptree Mon 20-Jul-26 10:49:21

Well anyone who thinks race and ethnicity are not live issues in Oz is clearly living in cloud cuckoo land

Tuliptree Mon 20-Jul-26 10:43:50

Oreo - now she is finally going to court, we will hopefully find out the truth. There must be more than a ‘medical blackout’ to the story. I have memories of a bin lorry driver in Glasgow. blacking out and people dying, turned out he’d been told not to drive by his doctor. So who knows?

Oreo Mon 20-Jul-26 10:43:33

😂

nanna8 Mon 20-Jul-26 10:41:34

Tuliptree

nanna8

It is getting ridiculous this obsession with race and skin colour. Does it happen in other countries as well ?

I have no idea and actually that’s hardly the point. Must be great living in colour blind Oz.

It is.

Oreo Mon 20-Jul-26 10:40:42

Terribull 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

Oreo Mon 20-Jul-26 10:39:24

nanna8

It is getting ridiculous this obsession with race and skin colour. Does it happen in other countries as well ?

I think it’s the British hair shirt tbh who’s wearers never miss a chance to don it.😉

Tuliptree Mon 20-Jul-26 10:38:24

nanna8

It is getting ridiculous this obsession with race and skin colour. Does it happen in other countries as well ?

I have no idea and actually that’s hardly the point. Must be great living in colour blind Oz.

Oreo Mon 20-Jul-26 10:38:03

Tuliptree

Of course it shouldn't diminish the murder but it does because the discourse is so muted. I’m reminded of the death of the two little girls mowed down by a woman driver outside their school. She was white and they were not. The parents have had to fight really hard to get a proper investigation and for charges to be brought. The father of at least one of the girls believes that race played a factor in how the case was initially handled So yes being the wrong race does often result in your death being diminished.

The woman driver that crashed into the school wasn’t drunk, nor had she taken drugs.She and police believed it was a medical black out.
The Father who believes that she was treated too leniently because of ethnicity is grieving so is entitled to believe what he likes but it doesn’t make it true.The death of children is never taken lightly.