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Goodbye Dame Esther

(64 Posts)
Mollygo Wed 30-Sept-26 19:03:27

Dame Esther Rantzen has died.

Oreo Thu 01-Oct-26 08:09:00

Luckygirl3

Childline is her memorial. flowers

And what a wonderful memorial it is.💐

Elrel Thu 01-Oct-26 01:40:13

I do hope that Esther did ‘go gently into that goodnight’ in the end. This is surely what we hope for our loved ones, and indeed ourselves. 🕊️

MayBee70 Thu 01-Oct-26 01:34:45

My main memory of her is of the publicity she gave to the Anthony Nolan charity.

Redhead56 Thu 01-Oct-26 00:59:43

Yes she certainly was a caring considerate and feisty woman to be admired R.I.P. xx

crazyH Thu 01-Oct-26 00:39:10

My marriage broke up. I am divorced.
The years have taught me a lot. I am no saint. Perhaps I had as much to do with the break-up, as his affair did. There is something called falling ‘out of love’ . It’s happened to me and my ex-husband and it probably happened to Esther.
Let’s applaud her for all the wonderful things she’s done.
R.I.P. Esther. flowers

Chestnut Thu 01-Oct-26 00:08:19

Boomer1947

Are we to just gloss over the hurt and distress she and Desmond Wilcox caused to his first wife.? A real lady does not climb into bed with another woman's husband.

This is a condolences thread, and really, do you know enough about their private lives to cast the first stone? None of us can ever know the inside situation around a marriage break up. It may not be what it appears and is ultimately none of our business.

mokryna Wed 30-Sept-26 23:27:12

RIP Esther flowers

I remember her first starting out in Braden’s week before I changed counties. I do hope she had a peaceful death.

Bukkie Wed 30-Sept-26 23:11:24

I will always associate her with That's Life on a Sunday night. R.I.P Esther, I hope your passing was peaceful.

Luckygirl3 Wed 30-Sept-26 22:32:43

Childline is her memorial. flowers

Cath9 Wed 30-Sept-26 22:24:11

A lady full of ideas.
At least now she will no longer suffer as what happened to my mother-in-law who also died with cancer.

Purplepixie Wed 30-Sept-26 22:03:49

RIP. She did so much and what a shame she suffered so much.

Casdon Wed 30-Sept-26 21:48:34

RIP. I really hope she had a peaceful death after all her struggles.

MT62 Wed 30-Sept-26 21:45:18

greyfur16

She seemed like a good person...I dunno....was there some strange connection with Saville?

😳

greyfur16 Wed 30-Sept-26 21:23:19

She seemed like a good person...I dunno....was there some strange connection with Saville?

Mollygo Wed 30-Sept-26 21:21:01

Magenta8

De mortuis nil nisi bonum dicendum est.

Otherwise known as . . .
It is socially inappropriate to speak ill of someone who has passed away and cannot defend themselves

Magenta8 Wed 30-Sept-26 21:16:34

De mortuis nil nisi bonum dicendum est.

Mollygo Wed 30-Sept-26 21:05:39

Boomer1947

Are we to just gloss over the hurt and distress she and Desmond Wilcox caused to his first wife.? A real lady does not climb into bed with another woman's husband.

No, but on the other hand, a real lady or even just someone with good manners doesn’t say things like that on a condolence thread.

rafichagran Wed 30-Sept-26 20:37:38

Boomer1947

Are we to just gloss over the hurt and distress she and Desmond Wilcox caused to his first wife.? A real lady does not climb into bed with another woman's husband.

This is a condolence thread. They may be your genuine views, but not appropriate given the circumstances.

sodapop Wed 30-Sept-26 20:27:58

A great lady, who achieved so much in her life. RIP Esther.

Grammaretto Wed 30-Sept-26 20:27:34

Fare thee well Esther. I'm sorry she wasn't able to have her last wish to choose when she died.
She was clever and funny and leaves a fabulous legacy of good.

FriedGreenTomatoes2 Wed 30-Sept-26 20:20:41

👋 to you Iam haven’t seen you posting for a while. x

Iam64 Wed 30-Sept-26 20:18:40

Well said grannygravy13.

I haven’t heard anyone, including Esther R describe herself as a “real lady””. She was a strong woman

GrannyGravy13 Wed 30-Sept-26 20:12:36

Boomer1947

Are we to just gloss over the hurt and distress she and Desmond Wilcox caused to his first wife.? A real lady does not climb into bed with another woman's husband.

Your comments really aren’t appropriate on a condolence thread

MT62 Wed 30-Sept-26 20:03:58

Boomer1947

Are we to just gloss over the hurt and distress she and Desmond Wilcox caused to his first wife.? A real lady does not climb into bed with another woman's husband.

‘That’s Life’ Unfortunately!
Still, really sorry to hear of her passing. Hope it was peaceful 😞

Grannybags Wed 30-Sept-26 19:54:44

RIP Esther

I heard she had booked Dignitas but but too ill to travel in the end