Thank you Bridgeit for your quick response! The only way I can see my grandsons is through my daughter, since they are 3 and 6. Since she is not speaking to me, it makes it difficult to arrange times, etc. I should also add that this is not the first time this has happened. But, yes, you are right, I never mention anything about her seeing my sister. Admittedly, I goofed and did say something when this argument occurred, just saying "it hurt my feelings" that I was left out of a gathering that included my sister, her daughter (which is rare!) and my daughter. It was a mistake on my part, but sometimes emotions get the best of us and I had to say something as I have been holding my tongue for a year! But, yes, you are right. I will no longer say anything about my sister, but as she won't speak to me, that is pretty easy to do lol! She said some awful and hurtful things that I did not deserve. My husband is very upset also and will not even respond to her text messages. Basically, she is your basic "entitled" millennial and feels that I should be exactly like my sister, insofar that I should want her boys (who I love dearly, but they are a handful) almost daily since my sister has her grandchildren and constantly tells me "Your sister would do it". I just get tired of the constant comparison. My sister is very easy-going to the point of being a doormat, while I admittedly am more of a planner and scheduler. I also have an auto-immune condition, which makes any plans we might make sometimes unpredictable, although I usually power through and smile, like a good mother lol! I just almost feel like they have ganged up on me and it has hurt me that the two women I am closest to in the whole world would treat me this way and I feel powerless. Thank you so much for your kind words of advice. It feels good just to know someone cares enough to try to help me with this. As I said, it is somewhat complicated. Thank you!