Hi Daisychain,
I found myself a in your position a few years ago (I was 55) and my doctor referred me to,the hospital. Far from wasting their time and being told that there was nothing wrong I found that my hearing was impaired and I needed a hearing aid. When I went to have it fitted it was brilliant, a small 'bud' that fits right into the ear canal with a thin pipe leading from it to the rest of the compact unit that fits behind my ear - to all intents and purposes invisible. The difference it made to my hearing has been amazing and I love it dearly. I am proud to tell anyone that I have a hearing aid as I hope it helps to dismiss the 'only for old people' myth. Try it, you don't need to pay a fortune.