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Oh dear, I am really sorry I seem to have caused a bit of tension.
I haven't been around because I was at the hospital yesterday and the Dr this morning, not as dramatic as it sounds.

Nobody has upset me, I told myself at the start of this road honesty was the best way forward.

Saw him again and ended in another row. I need to move on but it is so very hard.

Thank you all for taking the time to reply to my post & I am sorry if I caused any tension.

Just off with my little grandaughter shopping, back later

Could not have put it better,Soutra.

The Scottish exhortation to "Awa an' bile yer heid" seems particulately apposite somehow.

That you know what I meant.

What point would that be?

You know what I meant, and the fact that you're being so defensive proves my point.

That's better.

Of course Dave.

Calm down dear.

just answer the question please or don't lob unfounded accusations around.

Rather an extreme reaction to my single post offering an explanation as to why Kacee might have gone AWOL, I'd have thought.

There was nothing at all sarcastic about my comment.

Listen, I don't know what you are hinting at, but I asked a perfectly civil question about the circumstances of Kacee's errant husband's fancy woman and suddenly I 'm getting snide remarks about "you two" frightening her off.
Please explain. Just tell me which posts you think might have done that. And if you can't then stop making sarky comments.
It seems some of us are barely allowed to open our mouth without somebody jumping down our throats.

Hmm...'pot' and 'kettle' spring to mind, Soutra.

Oo-er Missus, which two Ana? Or is that just yet another excuse for a dig?

Ooh Clint Eastwood. Yummy

kacee has only been AWOL for a couple of days. She may just be busy.

bee63 my 63 year old sister in law is very happily married to an 83 year old who still picks up work as a Clint Eastwood look-a-like. Totally fanciable.

Perhaps you two have frightened her off!

I was just thinking the same thing Soutra

Kacee Doesn't seem to have posted on any other threads either?

How are things going Kacee? You seem to have dropped out of circulation?

bee63 that comment was totally unnecessary.

Are you still there kacee??

I am not much older then you, bee63 , a friend is your age and her OH is 70 and very fanciable indeed! Also not rich!

Kacee I can't lie to you, it is going to take ages to get over it, the hurt and rejection, I think he may be an extremely selfish man.

My own DBH is a good-looking man who looks younger than his years. There are always lots of females trying to chat him up. I would never try to steal another woman's OH, sadly there are many who would - and one almost did. I know it takes two, but I have been amazed to find out how many women seem to think nothing of trying to find something a bit better than what they have, and don't seem to care about the devastation they cause. I used to think it was all men chasing women, I have certainly had my eyes opened.

Exactly Eloethan. Not a very nice comment by bee63 and no need for it.

Whilst I am not prepared to discuss our sex life on an open forum I do find bee63's post quite insulting. I am 53 and very happily married to my DH who is 63...... and for the record I certainly didn't marry him for his money as he doesn't have any !

bee63 I'm sure if a man said that the thought of having sex with a woman of 63 would "turn his stomach", a lot of women would find that insulting.

I'm sure that Kacee has all sorts of conflicting emotions but unless a marriage has been very unhappy or abusive, after 40 years it's easier said than done to just say "good riddance".