We have gone far away for Christmas, leaving DD, SIL and two gorgeous grandchildren home alone (the other grandparents are deceased) for an extended period.
We feel rather selfish but also feel we need to live our own lives while we can. We are very close and loving and highly involved in our familiy's life. But, we felt that they might enjoy Christmas on their own for once and before we become needy and they become obliged to spend Christmas with us.
They seem to be OK with this, but goodness knows what they are saying to their friends!!