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unfaithful husband

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wot Mon 13-Jun-16 17:12:13

Look after yourself first. Do not leave him because you may lose your inheritance. Why should you lose out due to his disgraceful behaviour? Try to amass some "secret" savings. If you can't leave him you can at least treat yourself now and again. My attitude is due to experiencing a similar situation to yours.

2J8DATLAS Mon 13-Jun-16 16:44:23

I am age 74 and my husband is age 80. We have been married for 14 years after the deaths of our previous spouses. I have recently found out that my husband has been having a sexual affair with a woman for the past 2 years (at least). I do not intend to leave him or do anything to rock the boat as I am fully dependent on him financially. I am very angry about it and am finding it so hard to deal with emotionally. Has anyone any words of advice on how to deal with these feelings.