Feel very sad for you trueblue. My brother and his family moved to Western Canada 25 years ago and we felt bereft. However over the years, we now have FaceTime, Skype and email to keep in touch more easily. Also there are several budget airlines flying there. Lovely holidays to look forward to for you in a fantastic country with very friendly people. I know this is not the same as having them close by as I also have a son and grandchild in Malaysia. But you do get used to things.
PS take my advice and leave Mr Grumpy at home when you visit. I do and have a break from him as well. Win, win!